Thanks alot cemetary!
Shayna0182
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So dh I had a cousin's birthday party all day yesterday, we decided to stop by the cemetary and make sure her spot still looked nice. First off, the gravestone hasn't been put down yet, so I need to call the monument place and make sure it's coming. I definitely don't anymore delay than necessary. Then, her spot was all grown up with weeds. Now it has been about 6 weeks since we've gone to her spot and spent some time there. It's an hour away, and I don't like to take ds with us. So ds and I got down on our knees and started weeding her spot and now it looks nice again. It'll look way better when the stone is at her place.
I couldn't help but think yesterday, when a relative was talking about having her baby in Sept, that I shouldn't have to be calling to check on a gravestone. I should be sleep deprived, and trying to breastfeed. Life is so unfair!
Re: Thanks alot cemetary!
BFP 5/9/10. U/S - no heartbeat 6/2/10 (7 weeks). Induced miscarriage 6/7/10.
Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
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I am so sorry that you had to deal with that. It is completely unfair.
I can't stop thinking about what would be going on now if we hadn't lost our Sylvie - I'd have a big belly and would be planning a baby shower instead of planning my baby's memorial service. It's all so unfair.
BFP 1: 3/19/10 Loss: 7/9/10
BFP 2: 12/28/10
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I'm so sorry.
You're right: it's so unfair.
Earlier today I saw a woman with a baby bump about the size mine should be now. That's all I could think about as I stared and stared at her belly, then got teary.