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11dpo and a bfn....

HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
I am wondering why we even try anymore.... It has been just about a year since I got my first BFP.... I was so silly to think I would be pg again by now.... everything about this cycle was as close to be perfect as it could be.... our timing, my cm and my opks.... I am feeling so broken right now...   Not sure what we should do... just try again next cycle... call the doctor for more tests... I almost feel like a bfp at this point would be a surprise because I am felling like i will never be a mom. 
~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
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Re: 11dpo and a bfn....

  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member

    {{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}

    When was the last time that you saw your doctor?  Do you think that there is anything that he can do to help you?

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
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  • HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member
    I had an HSG a fews weeks ago and everything was clear.... and DH had an SA and he sample was great.... so I am not sure whats next.
    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member

    I hope that your doctor will be able to come up with a plan for you.

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    I'm so sorry, Heather.  I know this is super frustrating.  Have you considered moving on to an RE?  I know you've had a lot of cycles with great timing and that everything your OB has tested for shows you and P are in good health. 
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    I'm so sorry.  I hope someone can get this figured out for you. 
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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    HUGS.

    I am so sorry honey.

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm sorry. 
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    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm so sorry.  I hope you get some answers soon.  ((hugs))
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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    lots and lots of ((((hugs)))))........I would speak to your OB and see what they think about referring you to an RE.....you are close to the year mark and an RE is able to do further testing and this is their specialty.
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    I'm sorry.  I hope your doctor can help you figure out where to go from here.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member

    You aren't silly. You had every reason to think you'd be pregnant again by now. So did I! It sucks so much that you're not and I understand why you feel like giving up hope.

    I second Julie's recommendation to seek out an RE. I'm going to one next month and not bothering to do any testing with my OB (who doesn't think there's any reason to worry yet--wow, exactly what she said to me last August!). My OB is great, but she doesn't have the training and expertise of an RE with these issues. Just a thought!

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • Court1Court1
    I'm sorry sweetie.  I'd consider moving to a RE.  That's what we're doing & I'm hopeful that they'll be able to help.  :::Hugs:::
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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