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IUI is cancelled

ade2beade2be
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I'm at a loss of words.  I've spent my morning in tears.

My OB had to go do a delivery, so I had the other OB in the office.  He does measure follicles slighly differently, but honestly, I don't have ANYTHING of any size in there.  This is CD18.  He measured my biggest one to be 8mm...down from 12 Friday.  He said just to try naturally, that there was no point of doing a trigger shot or IUI this time around.

This sucks.  DH and I talked about next steps after the appointment.  I'm pretty sure that we will start going to an RE for next cycle.  I'm going to give DH another day for it all to soak in and then call to get the referral.

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I am so sorry honey.

    Honestly, I think it is time to speak to an RE. They are more specialized, and can just give you more attention and care than a regular OB/GYN can.

    I am so sorry this happened.

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  • CarrieLeigh84CarrieLeigh84 member
    Ugh, I am so sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so sorry.  Going to an RE sounds like a good idea.
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  • SweetieD21SweetieD21 member

    I'm so sorry the IUI is cancelled. 

    But, I'm surprised you're doing meds/IUI with your OB, and not an RE.  I think you'll feel much more comfortable with an RE.  After all, they're the infertility specialist, not the OB. 

    Best of luck to you!

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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    Oh no, I'm so sorry!  I think an RE would be a great idea.
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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    Im so sorry it didn't work out,  it is so sad and disappointing, I totally feel for you!
     
    I definately agree that an RE going forward is a great idea......((((hugs))))
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  • babes12babes12 member

    oh no, i'm so sorry ade2be. i know you were looking forward to this cycle.  ugh.  huge (((hugs)))

    i really think it's time for an RE too.  you've been through enough.  i'm sorry. 

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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    oh no! I am so sorry that this was canceled. I agree. An RE will be able to follow you more closely and hopefully help out or have some ideas about the size of the follies and growth rates. 

    hugs.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member
    Oh no, I'm so sorry!
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  • ade2beade2be
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    Honestly, I think it is time to speak to an RE. They are more specialized, and can just give you more attention and care than a regular OB/GYN can.

    I know...it is.  I've been there for a bit, but DH has been hesitant.  I think this convinced him that its the right thing to do.  It sounds like my doctor refers to the RE in the area that everyone on the bump boards recommend....so I hope he's good!

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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    imageade2be:
    imageambrandau2:

    Honestly, I think it is time to speak to an RE. They are more specialized, and can just give you more attention and care than a regular OB/GYN can.

    I know...it is.  I've been there for a bit, but DH has been hesitant.  I think this convinced him that its the right thing to do.  It sounds like my doctor refers to the RE in the area that everyone on the bump boards recommend....so I hope he's good!

    I hope so too! I hope he has some great new ideas to make this happen for you guys, and soon.

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  • jcathjcath member
    I'm so sorry - that's really disappointing. 
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  • suntotosuntoto member
    Oh honey, I am so very sorry! 
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • AtoBAtoB
    I'm so sorry, but it sounds like the move to an RE would be a positive step forward. Hugs.
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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member
    I'm so sorry....that is devastating news.  I've been there and I understand how disappointed you are. {{{{big hugs}}}}
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  • babygirlpriestbabygirlpriest
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    I am so sorry honey.

    Honestly, I think it is time to speak to an RE. They are more specialized, and can just give you more attention and care than a regular OB/GYN can.

    I am so sorry this happened.

    All this.

    Huge hugs sweetie. So sorry this is happening.

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  • Court1Court1
    I'm so sorry hun.  I think a RE is a good idea. 
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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    I am so sorry, April. I hope the RE is a great help. (hugs)
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    I am so sorry ((big hugs)) I agree, going to an RE is a good idea. Sending you lots of love
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    I'm so sorry April. I think moving to an RE is a good decision. ((hugs))
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    I'm so sorry, April.  I was really hoping for you.  I think the RE is a great decision.
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  • eminbmoreeminbmore member
    Oh April :(  I'm so sorry.  I agree with the others though, I think going to an RE will be really helpful at this point.  I honestly don't think my OB would have come up with as good a plan for me as my RE did.
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  • johannaknipjohannaknip
    I'm so sorry sweetie.
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  • schen0510schen0510
    This absolutely stinks.  I agree that it is probably a good idea to consult with an RE.  They can monitor you more closely and help those follies grow.  ((hugs))
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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    {{{{{{Big Hugs}}}}}}
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    I'm so sorry April (((HUGS)))
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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    {hugs}  I am so sorry.
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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    I am so sorry.  I hope you can get in to see an RE very soon.  (((hugs)))
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  • michroccmichrocc member

    I'm so sorry, sweetie.

    Sending big ::::::::hugs::::::::

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  • tamhen1979tamhen1979 member

    I am so sorry sweetie.

     

    I think the RE is a great next step.

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  • rjl07rjl07

    I'm so sorry.  I hope the RE can help.  ((hugs))

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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva
    I am sorry.  I agree a RE would be your next step.  HUGS
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm so sorry.

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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    I'm so sorry hun ::HUGE hugs::
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  • frogyiefrogyie
    oh Im so sorry.. That must be so fustrating. I would be in tears too. 
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Oh I am so so so sorry...I wish I could hug you...This sucks!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I'm so sorry they cancelled it. I think seeing an RE is a good idea. My RE's office is amazing and I'm glad I started seeing them.

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