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Found out why Dh is so crabby

KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
Dh has been awfully crabby the last couple of days.  He's on the road and he calls a couple of times per day, but honestly I haven't really wanted to talk to him, it's been that bad.  Finally I found out what the issue is.  He went in for his blood work to get the genetics testing done.  He's terrified there is something wrong with him and that he caused our loss.  I kind of wanted to snap and say, "welcome to my world," but didn't.  I understand what's he's going through and I'm sure most of you ladies get it too.  Once he finally spilled he seems to be feeling better.
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Re: Found out why Dh is so crabby

  • ColindaPColindaP member
    Aww, that is stressful. I totally agree with you on the "welcome to my world" thing, but I'm glad he's getting it off his chest. Hopefully he'll start feeling  alittle better about it. And I hope the results come back good.
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  • dandyelledandyelle

    I'm sorry Kristy...

    I always tell DH that if our marraige can survive infertility, then we can survive anything, and I really believe it. Unfortunately, there is so much guilt when you start digging into the problem. It's hard both on us as people and as couples. I'm glad he was finally honest about why he was cranky.

    And I totally get how you feel with the "welcome to my world" part.

    (((hugs)))

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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    I'm sorry he is so stressed, and I am glad he is talking to you about it. I'm sorry either one of you has to feel this way.
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  • kew243kew243 member
    Sorry he has been crabby, but I am glad you figured it out and I am glad he has more insight into how you are feeling.  Most of all, like Allison said, I'm sorry either of you had to feel this way.
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  • whitterbugkwhitterbugk member

    Kristy - get thyself to MM. The ladies there miss you and there's rampant speculation about where you've been.

     Well, not rampant, but it sounds more juicy that way :)

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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm glad he was able to talk to you about it.  I hope that helps him to feel better now that he let it out.  ((hugs))
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    Glad he talked to you about why he is stressed.

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