got crazy news about my bro last night (pregnancy related)

babes12 · August 2010

so my bro texted me last night and asked me if 3 +hpts really meant a + test. i was like ah, yes!

so i'll try to make this brief. my bro was w/ his gf. for 8yrs, then they broke up over a year ago. i really liked her and thought they'd get married etc... well he met this new girl and has been w/ her for about a year but on and off and my bro was never too serious about her. well turns out she was changing her BC pill and she was ended up being late this month, well i take it she's pg. now!!!! i can't believe it. my bro is 35yrs old and had no interest in having kids at all. i'm just dumbfounded by it all.

it took me for forever to finally believe my bro that she's really pg. b/c he's a chronic liar just to get a rise out of you.

i just can't believe it. i couldn't sleep at all last night b/c of it and i can only imagine what my bro must be thinking. i know he'll be a good dad but i know he also didn't want kids. and it's so sad of me to say but i don't know his new gf at all and now she's going to be part of our family for forever.

::sigh::

babes12 · August 2010

and not to mention my mom and bro haven't talked in about a month and a half. i have no idea how she's going to take this bc i don't think it's going to be a joyous occassion and i'm dying b/c she's here today watching DS. i have to bite my tongue and not say anything. its killing me. she will be shocked!

AppleRidge · August 2010

Wow, that's crazy. I hope everything works out for them. I really hope he doesn't feel pressured to get married to this person he's been so on again off again with.

babes12 · August 2010

BBHME:
Wow, that's crazy. I hope everything works out for them. I really hope he doesn't feel pressured to get married to this person he's been so on again off again with.

he said that's the last thing he's thinking about. (marriage)

that's why him and his X broke up b/c she wanted to get married and have kids. now look what happened. and it's such a shame too b/c they were so good for eachother and that's really the only reason they broke up, it's not like they didn't love eachother. sigh.

KristysRedBarn · August 2010

Oh wow, that's just crazy. I hope they get it all sorted out.

bbhalphen · August 2010

Oh goodness! I hope it gets sorted out!

Pixiestx · August 2010

That's really sad that he broke up with someone he loved because he didn't want kids and now he is going to end up doing it anyway but with someone he might not actually want to be with. His head must be spinning. I hope everything works out for them one way or another.

DoingItRight · August 2010

I hope that everything works out for him.

babes12 · August 2010

Pixiestx:
That's really sad that he broke up with someone he loved because he didn't want kids and now he is going to end up doing it anyway but with someone he might not actually want to be with. His head must be spinning. I hope everything works out for them one way or another.

i know. it's just crazy and when his X finds out she's going to be devastated. i know she's seeing someone else and is happy but i know this will crush her. (

i know my bro really cares for his current GF but i don't think in the way he cared for his X.

rjl07 · August 2010

I hope everything works out. I feel so bad for the ex-gf - I'm sure this will be so hard for her.

babes12 · August 2010

rjl07:
I hope everything works out. I feel so bad for the ex-gf - I'm sure this will be so hard for her.

it's going to kill his X. that's all she wanted was to get married and have kids. ( it's making me sick to my belly to even think of her finding out.

BeachCole · August 2010

What a tough situation for everyone

I hope everything turns out okay.

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