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suggestions please...have to stop nursing. Docs orders.

Army~WifeArmy~Wife member
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My DD is just shy of 8 months.  I have been very proud to say that her and I have worked very hard and I have never had to supplement with formula.  I pump like crazy and I have an awesome (19 gal) stash for her as a fall back.  I am in no way ready to quit now....we have worked too hard and I really wanted to make it a full year. 

Well, by total surprise, I found out Friday that we are expecting our second child.  While I knew I wanted another one and we feel really blessed I am also feeling hugely overwhelmed with everything in general, but that is a whole different topic.

When I spoke to my OB yesterday she told me that she strongly suggests that I quit nursing/pumping.  She said that this is due to the risk of MC (I think she said <remember I was still in shock> that it's because stimulation to the nipples can cause uterine contractions resulting in MC).  I had complications at the end of my last pregnancy.  She also mentioned the struggle that it would be to provide adequate nutrients to both babies.

So I am slowly coming to grips that this beautiful time in my DD's life will have to come to an end for the sake for her sis/bro.  I am pretty emotional about it but it is what it is.

My question is how do I do this?  I am not worried about the transition for DD as she is already used the bottle while I am at work.  But, how do I wean myself?  Is there a way to speed up the process?  Less pain?  What kind of shirts do you wear when you wrap yourself in an ace bandage?  I have heard something about trying cabbage leaves but don't know where to begin with that. 

I know this is long but any advise you ladies have would be helpful.   Thank you!

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Re: suggestions please...have to stop nursing. Docs orders.

  • I'mAcrossThePondI'mAcrossThePond
    I'd get a new doctor...you do not need to stop BFing while pregnant. I nursed until I was 4 months pregnant (DS was then 15.5 months old and was self-weaning/generally uninterested in BFing anymore). Now, you might notice a dip in supply and you might have to start supplementing with formula, but you do not have to quit all together unless YOU want to...or you are on some medication that you did not mention in your post.
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  • fallingangel_leefallingangel_lee
    Congrats. I know lots of people who have breastfeed well expecting you just have  to make sure you get all the right amount to eat. If I were you I would be getting ahold of a LC and talk  to them about it  they will know what to do. You have to remember that it could just be your OB's school of thought that you should breastfreed well expecting. I hope this helped
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  • ncbellencbelle member

    You don't have to quit nursing!!  Your doc is taking a very dated or misinformed point of view.

    Here's some good info on nursing while pregnant: https://www.kellymom.com/bf/tandem/index.html

    I plan to keep nursing through this pregnancy unless kiddo decides otherwise.  If you are otherwise healthy, it is not a problem to do so!



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  • SoonToBeMrsLavigneSoonToBeMrsLavigne
    You don't have to stop. I am 28 weeks pregnant and still nursing a 10 month old. Although my supply is barely there my child is still happy and wanting to nurse. I have had no complications during my pregnancy, and both babies are healthy. I would personally find a new Dr ( or a midwife! )And explore your options before you decide to stop. GL!
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  • ByGraceByGrace

    Congratulations on the new baby!

    I agree with the previous comments - unless you have an underlying, additional risk for miscarriage breastfeeding is not a risk.  Breastfeeding on it's own while pregnant will not cause a miscarriage.  Talk to you doctor again, or get a second opinion.  Maybe find a different doctor, or even ask your childs pediatrician what they think about this.

    I breastfed throughout my second pregnancy, and am now nursing both children without any difficulty.  My OB advised against breastfeeding while pregnant as well - but it was just that, advise only, and it's old-school advice at that.  A lactation consultant will have more up-to-date research to quote for you.

    It's a personal decision, so do what is right for your family.

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  • NurselorieNurselorie
    I agree with all the other posters- no need to stop!  I'm breastfeeding while pregnant with the full support of my OB.  They have a LC in the office and she herself has nursed 2 babies.  Find a more supportive doc or someone in the practice who will support you.  You have done an amazing job and there is no reason to stop!!!
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  • adriennevlaadriennevla

    Congrats!

    I agree with PPs. I have known several women who nursed while pregnant. Their supplies did drop and at some times completely went away, but they didn't miscarry!

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