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Did your DH find your PG body sexy?

I was reading some of the comment on the boudoir maternity pics post from earlier and some people mentioned that their DH's wouldn't appreciate sexy pregnant photos because they weren't attracted to the belly. My DH was not into my pregnant body at all. We still had sexytime all throughout but the belly didn't do it for him at all. It didn't offend me though. I thought my body was awesome growing a human and all, but definitely not so sexy. 

Re: Did your DH find your PG body sexy?

  • I think it's more like he thought I was beautiful but not necessarily sexy. Ya know?  And I felt the same way. It was beautiful and awesome but not sexy.

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  • i didnt have any butt or boob pre-preg so for him, it was a treat because i gained these things.  he enjoyed it.

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  • Heck no. He was ecstatic that I was bringing another child into the world, but the whole process of getting to that point...  I wouldn't say it was especially thrilling for him. He did say I exuded a confidence that he'd never seen before, and we still had a great sex life throughout, but NO, he didn't find pregnancy to be sexy.
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  • He loved my belly and even thinks my stretchies are cute.  I'm scared to show them in a bikini and he's the one telling me, "Babe, you had a baby...it happens"  and "put that down!...I will divorce you if you wear a one piece"
  • Not at all.  DH was completely weirded out by me being pregnant and we didn't have any sexytime.  It sucked.  He liked to cuddle and snuggle, but thats it. 
  • The belly was definitely not an attraction for us. It took us awhile to figure out good positions for sex that worked for both of us because he won't touch the belly during it; it freaks him out too much! He of course loves the bigger boobs though.

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    i didnt have any butt or boob pre-preg so for him, it was a treat because i gained these things.  he enjoyed it.

    This!  My boobs were insane.  However, I was high risk and so we weren't allowed to have sex most of my pregnancy.  But he still constantly told me he thought I was beautiful.  Me being pregnant didn't weird him out when it came time to be intimate. 

  • DH thought I was beautiful and attractive, but the big belly just didn't "do it" for him ;-) I don't think either one of us saw me being pregnant as sexy.
  • DH was really into my body when i was preggo, he wanted me to send him naked pics all the time when he was away/at work. I MAY have sent oneSurprise. I never did any professional pix though. I didnt think myself as sexy, but now that im not i wish i would of appreciated it more....
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  • DH thinks I am sexy (I don't know why, lol!) He loves my bigger boobs of course and even the belly he thinks is sexy. He is always saying how sexy or hot I look when I really I just look a hot mess!!!
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    I don't think anything really bothered him that much... it was more me. I had wicked acne all over my chest, back and face. And I swelled like crazy near the end. I was not feeling attractive at. all.
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  • DH thought I looked sexy. Even though I didn't think so. Maybe he was lying. Hmm
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  • Beautiful and amazing for what it was doing, yes. ?Sexy... I doubt it. ?
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  • I knew I wasn't the only one!  No, he didn't find pregnancy sexy at all.  I on the other hand felt really hot.  It was the first time in my life I wasn't so worried about weight.

    I wasn't offended though.  I knew once it was over we would be fine, and we were.

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  • He liked my boobs. Big Smile I highly doubt he thought the whole package was very sexy though.


  • I don't know about sexy, but I did hear that I was beautiful a lot and it definitely helped when I felt my worst. He even likes my body now (flab, stretch marks and all) and I'm not sure why. lol
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    Not at all.  DH was completely weirded out by me being pregnant and we didn't have any sexytime.  It sucked.  He liked to cuddle and snuggle, but thats it. 

    This for me too. DH said that he just couldn't do it because there was life growing inside me, lol.  

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  • Luckily, yes, he did. : )
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  • I don't think he found my PG body to be especially sexy... but I can't blame him, because neither did I.
  • I freaking love my DH because he seems to be into my body no matter whether I'm pg or not pg.  For whatever reason, he finds me sexy all the time.  I'm so grateful, because that means one of us thinks I'm sexy. 
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  • He said he found me just as attractive as always. He wasn't extra turned on by the belly, but he wasn't turned off either.
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  • Yes. That's one of my favorite things about DH, is that he always finds me to be super sexy, no matter what, and even when I find myself to be super revolting. lol.
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