O Pain on both sides? (long, sorry)

I'm still relatively new to this TTC thing, and I could use some help.  Last cycle, I got definite O pain around ovulation, but I only really noticed it in hindsight (I had a very screwy 87-day cycle, so I didn't really recognize it as O Pain until after my temp shift).  It was only on the right side.

Now, I'm experiencing something similar to what I had last time, but it's on both sides.  Does anyone else get this?  I also realize these pains could all be in my head.  I'm worried that it's all phantom o symptoms and that I'm just imagining everything.

If you look at my chart, you see a lot of EWCM marked, but a lot of that was just because I didn't really know what I was looking for.  2 days ago, I got REAL EWCM, and I had it yesterday.  Today it was kind of watery. 

I realize that I won't know I ovulated until after my temp shift, but I'm trying to get ahead of it to time sex.  I still haven't gotten a positive OPK.  I never got one last cycle, either, yet I had a very obvious thermal shift.

Thanks for the help!