Postpartum Depression

I had my PPD intake today. . .

I guess I'd say that I'm new here, so here's my story. . .

Since I had PPD with DD, I figured I needed to have services in place for after LO's birth. Today I came to terms about alot of stuff that has bothered me for the past 12 or so years. With DD I was only 21 and kind of in denial about anything being wrong with me. But after many thoughts of harming her as an infant, I am definitely more open to help this go round. I feel like I have so many issues and feel terrible about bringing another baby into this world after the things I dealt with 3 years ago. Any advice ladies?

Re: I had my PPD intake today. . .

  • This is my first time posting on the PPD board, but I just wanted to encourage you and commend you for already taking steps to help yourself and your baby.  Instead of letting guilt get the best of you, please try to determine to do what you can and get the help you need so that you both can be healthy and happy.  Blessings
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  • I think the hardest part for me was deciding that I needed help. It sounds like you have already decided that you are open to help if you need it so that already puts you a step ahead of some people. Have you talked to your OB about your previous experience yet? The medicine I was put on made everything so much better and I wish I had called the office sooner. With this pregnancy, I am planning on discussing it as we get closer to the birth. Maybe your doctor can refer you to a therapist to start seeing right after the birth that might help right away. Then, if you need more intervention, you will already have someone to talk to in place.

    Good luck! 

  • It sounds like you have already got it right. Taking the steps to make sure that your baby (and you) are taken care of before the baby is even born is a sign of great maturity. You have proven that you know that you may need help, and that you accept that. For many women dealing with PPD, admitting that they need help is one of the hardest parts.

    I'm glad to hear that you are tackling issues that have been bothering you for such a long time. Getting them off your chest could be very helpful.

    Is your SO in the picture? If so, just do your best to prepare him for your possible upcoming PPD as well. If he knows how he can best help you and support you, it will be an easier situation for both of you.

    Best of luck!

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