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it never goes away

LeanieLeanie
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I am done.  We have two beautiful, healthy children that took blood, sweat and a lot of tears to have.  I am happy.  It is all that I can handle.

 Then why do I feel a tad jealous that a friend just announced she is pregnant with her 3rd?  After just starting to try. 

 I will die with IF.  Boo hiss.

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  • LVBlvdLVBlvd
    I am currently pregnant with my second and third and I got jealous of my best friend when she announced her pregnancy.  It was her first.  I don't know.  I can't explain it.
    DX: PCOS * Success with IVF

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  • trilady2trilady2
    Hi hon. I feel the exact, same way. I'm sorry. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. Not by a long shot. No matter what I will always feel that little sting every single time someone announces a pg. HUGS.
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member

    I don't think IF does ever truly go away. I feel like it changed me, and I can't go back to my old way of thinking. I think your response is totally natural. IF leaves it's mark.

    (((((hugs))))) 

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  • tina623tina623 member
    I feel the same way.  I think it's I know I don't have the option and they do.  IF hurts.
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  • leslie&brianleslie&brian member
    It really never does go away. I hadn't gotten AF in 3 months (I have PCOS), and I kept taking tests, and was praying that I would get a surprise BFP. Got AF today, and I actually cried.
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