I'm so heartbroken right now as I found out that my LO isn't getting enough milk despite my attempt to EB. At her doctor's appt today, she weighed 6lbs3oz down from her 7lbs birth weight. Her pedi suggested we supplement with formula (Similac Sensitive) and is told me to feed her the formula every 1.5-2hrs. She stated that I can still pump and feed her the breast milk but needs her to be formula fed to make sure she can gain weight
I'm so worried about nipple confusion and hope she'll still take the boob after we see the pedi on Monday. I'm going to start taking the Mother Love More Milk Plus capsules/liquid to help increase my milk supply but I have no idea if the problem is even my milk supply. I'm just a bit bummed that the pedi didn't try to help me much and resorted to formula straight away.
Is anyone else faced with their LO's weight gain? I'm tempted to ditch feeding her formula exclusively suggestion and supplement instead.
Re: Supplementing with Formula
I ditched the formula only solution, but we still have a peanut baby. Also I did work with the pedi to come up with a solution that works for both of us, rather than totally disregard. We decided to give her another week of breastfeeding. and if that didn't work I'd supplement with formula only after i breast fed. He was ok with that. In that week, I switched up how i was feeding. No more of this 10 on one side and switch, baby drained the breast then offered the other. And I saw a lactation consultant to make sure we were doing things right.
Hmm...my pedi. rec. 1.5 to 2oz breastmilk 2-3 times a day when we were having the same problems. I cannot imagine you wouldn't be able to provide the BM in lieu of formula, as long as you are producing enough. I found that pumping near my DS and taking deep, relaxing breaths did more to improve my pumping sessions than any capsules.
We did have a bit of nipple confusion problems, which led to using a nipple sheild for a few weeks, but by 6 weeks we were back to just the boobie...so it can all work out. I just let everyone in my world know that breastfeeding was my first priority for those weeks and that I needed help with things around the house, or to not go to parties/events during those weeks. To just focus on myself and feeding my baby was key.
Good Luck! Hang in there momma!
I have had to supplement with formula (much to my dismay) b/c my DD was extremely slow to regain her birthweight. It had to do with a combination of several factors, including my supply (which was adversely affected by my exhaustion, not eating enough, and PPD). Definitely get in touch with a lactation consultant ASAP. Supplementing with formula is OK, but it won't help you BF if your supply is low. I would say if you want to EBF, pump and try to supplement with your milk, and this should help your supply. I take fenugreek in combination with blessed thistle, and sometimes drink the Mother's Milk tea, and I try to eat oatmeal for breakfast as often as possible. If you drink water while your breastfeeding and pumping, that helps with letdown. I still don't always feel the letdown, though.
You could also look into a Supplemental Nursing System. (Medela makes one: https://medela.factoryoutletstore.com/details/20662-13237/00901.html) I am using one currently, and it's a lot of work. I would recommend finding a LC that can help you with this. Although pedis say "breast is best" they don't know how to offer the support and encouragement that a LC can. They are quick to tell you to supplement with formula (which when I was told to do this, my LC said "Formula isn't rat poison, you know!) because they are not as educated about BF as LC's are. My LC also told me that any amount of breastmilk is beneficial - you can successfully breastfeed and supplement with formula if that's what works for you and your daughter. Good luck to you!
Thank you greatly ladies!
to pp, I agree with getting an LC, mine is on vacation and will return Monday. I'll definitely get in contact with her ASAP. I decided to supplement with the formula since I'm having a hard time getting enough milk by pumping. I'm hoping I'll master the skills of pumping, soon. Although it's exhausting having her attached to my boobs all day long, I enjoy BFing her and feel like she's getting the milk, I guess not enough since her weight loss is so drastic.
If I were you I would contact a lactation consultant ASAP. It seems very extreme to go straight to giving a baby that much formula.
https://www.kellymom.com/bf/supply/low-supply.html
This is EXACTLY what happened to me... only at 2 weeks. They told me I had to start supplementing because he lost over his 10%. As of now, he take both my breasts and the bottle with no problems. I contribute this to letting him nurse 24/7 (literally, I let him be on the boob constantly and as much as he liked) even though I was supplementing as well. I let him comfort nurse anytime he wanted and also nurse to sleep. Before giving him supplement, I made sure he nursed for a long time and switched him back and forth between breasts until it was clear that he needed more (I then gave him some formula.)
If/when you do supplement - make sure you pump every single time. I never did and had an even lower supply and now have a low supply that is finally going up with the help of pumping after feeding and an rx (domperidone.) I nursed as much as we could to try and ensure he didn't become nipple confused and now, 3 m 2 w later, everything is going good!
If you really want to nurse DO NOT DO FORMULA ONLY. Let him nurse first and in between and whenever he wants to. Pump as much as you can. That makes me mad that you were told to strictly formula feed. There's so much you can do to try and help your supply! I'm proof! Even at my lowest of lows regarding supply, I let him nurse. I went down from 21 oz of supplement every day to, now, about 9 oz! It's hard work - I know first hand.
Another thing, maybe it's your LO's latch! There's so much info at www.nbci.ca - videos and everything. If you need better advice you can even email Dr. Jack Newman (a breastfeeding guru who prescribed me domperidone to help my supply).
Make sure you're drinking lots of water, eating enough, and getting rest. Try eating oatmeal everyday. Try taking fenugreek and blessed thistle capsules. Brewer's yeast is supposed to help. Worst case scenario - if it is your supply - you can get an rx.
Good luck! If you need anything else, or someone to talk to, you can e-mail me at haily@sasktel.net. I know the heartache of wanting to BF and having so many troubles. I cried so hard for so long.