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worlds most obnoxious mother.
My mom is driving me bonkers. Here is why:
1. When I told her that we had to move to IVF she told me that she couldnt support that because god will give me a baby when I deserve one.
2. I cant just talk to her like a normal person. When I called her yesterday and told her I was asked to be in a friends wedding she only b*tched and said "how are you gonna pay for that". THANKS MOM! grrrrrrr
3. Today I was taking to her and was trying to talk to her like a human and have normal conversation about my life and mentioned that I cant wait till I get to drink next weekend after i get my BFN. (back story: I truely enjoy going out and drinking with friends, im young and I like to get drunk every now and then... sorry but i do. I havent drank in 2 months because of my metformin.) This was the conversation:
mom: YOU CANT DRINK
me: why?
mom: because you are trying to get pregnant
me: well I will know next week if I am and if in not I am going to drink because there is no reason not too.
mom: well you need to grow up you cant get drunk when you have kids
me: why?
mom: because who will take care of them?
me: a baby sitter or whoever is at home with it
mom: NO, you cant do that because what if something happens to them.
me: they have a dad and 4 grandparents and DH's aunts all within 20 minutes of them
mom: people dont drink that have kids
me: watch me. (hahaha, i said this to irk her)
mom: thats not a good mother.
me: You are awfully judgmental and opinionated..... goodbye
CLICK!
wow, why do I try?! We are just SO fundamentally different.
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Re: worlds most obnoxious mother.
O boy, are we sisters? My mom is the SAME WAY! I can not have a normal conversation with her at all.
Drink till its pink!
~Lauren~
**SAIF always welcome.**
After 2+ years, 3 losses, 3 surgeries, 2 IVFs and 1 FET our little girl is here.
my read shelf:
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Wow!
I can definitely relate to being very fundamentally different then your mom. My mom and I are very different people too. My mom can be judgey too, although she is much more passive aggressive about it then your mom sounds.
::: Married June 2003:::
TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
IVF# 4= c/p
***CCRM ODWU***
Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
***New RE***
DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture.
IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
Ugh, that's annoying! I'm sorry. Good for you for trying to have a normal conversation, sigh maybe next time!
TTC since August 2008
IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
"Let it go, this too shall pass."