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It's official...

nanabanana06nanabanana06
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I'm going to be a single parent... wonderful. My fiance was an a$$ the last few months. He was on his final chance. Then we find out that he told his mother that he didn't think the baby was his. It was the last straw in the whole relationship. It sucks, but it's whats best for my LO. I want her to have a stable home. Me staying with her bi-polar father and arguing constantly wasn't that. So now I just go from here. 

I should be more upset, but I'm not. Either I'm in shock still or subconciously I knew this was coming. However, all in all life will go on. It won't be easy for me, but being a parent was never meant to be easy. Well I hope all you ladies have wonderful ends of your pregnancies! 

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  • mooretiggrmooretiggr
    GL! Glad you are seeing things realistically. Not all in your situation would take such a calm approach.
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  • Giggity19Giggity19
    Wow.  That's got to be tough.  Good for you for realizing it though.  I hope you have some support - friends and family - to help you through this rough time. 
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  • MassageMomma2010MassageMomma2010

    Glad you are doing what's best for your child. You are sure to be a great mom making hard decisions like that!

    I have a friend who can't look at her situation from the outside (or more importantly, from her kid's eyes) and she is in such a verbally abusive relationship. I see how it affects her son everyday.

    While I can't imagine what it would be like to face this momentous occasion alone, I assume it will be more enjoyable without that @sshole mucking it up for you. You are going to have a beautiful baby soon and everything else will no longer matter.

    Best of luck!

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  • gracelord121809gracelord121809 member

    You are a strong woman. Your child will be lucky to call you mom.

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  • ashopaholicmomashopaholicmom
    Best Wishes to you.
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  • LuluJ11LuluJ11
    Only you know what's best for your family and it's totally OK if that family includes just you and baby, better to be just the two of you and be happy than have some third party in there screwing up the balance....good luck.
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  • ames71ames71 member
    I wish you nothing but the best. So sorry you're having to go through this right now.
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  • shaymichelle89shaymichelle89 member
    I'm sorry to hear this..but at the same time I'm glad that you are so strong for you LO and that if you think your relationship isn't healthy, that you're getting out. I grew up in a home where my parents "stayed together for us" but they were miserable together and it made my brother and I miserable. Staying together for your child isn't *always* the best case. GL and you can do it!
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  • **Octoberbride09****Octoberbride09** member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I wish you and your little one the best!
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  • jstamand48067jstamand48067
    imageNana_Osaki06:

    I'm going to be a single parent... wonderful. My fiance was an a$$ the last few months. He was on his final chance. Then we find out that he told his mother that he didn't think the baby was his. It was the last straw in the whole relationship. It sucks, but it's whats best for my LO. I want her to have a stable home. Me staying with her bi-polar father and arguing constantly wasn't that. So now I just go from here. 

    I should be more upset, but I'm not. Either I'm in shock still or subconciously I knew this was coming. However, all in all life will go on. It won't be easy for me, but being a parent was never meant to be easy. Well I hope all you ladies have wonderful ends of your pregnancies! 

    Hope you made his ass take a paternity test to prove that yes that is his child. Cause if he was the only one you was with way before you got pregnant he owes you huge not only a lot in back child support but also one huge ass apology.

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  • jamiemsmithjamiemsmith member
    I'm sorry this is happening, but I'm very glad you're taking the steps now to move on. I've seen people stay in relationships that were bad for them just for comfort. Best of luck!
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  • TiggerLuv80TiggerLuv80

    imagemooretiggr:
    GL! Glad you are seeing things realistically. Not all in your situation would take such a calm approach.

    This... My ex-DH was similar to this and I wish I had gotten out of the relationship earlier rather than later.

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