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How did you meet your man?

We may have done this, but searching for PIPs for Ashley made me think of this (yeah...Vicoden makes me weird).

I met Bill online.  Dating in this area is tough because I either knew the guy was a douche already or he'd dated half of my friends and that was just weird.  I got lucky as heck and I tell him he's my winning lottery ticket, my dream come true and the best thing that's ever happened to me.  

Anyway...on to the point here.  Before I met him, I got some strange "bites" on my profile.  Most were just perverts, but this guy took the cake.  In his first email, which was only semi-coherent, he included this picture.  I don't have the faintest idea why he was single...

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Re: How did you meet your man?

  • Yikes!  I met DH at a frat party in college :)
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  • haha too funny! DH and I were high school sweethearts.
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  • I met mine at Old Navy. Both our friends worked there and went to pick up their checks...we just all happend to be there at the same time and got to talking.  We had gone to school together our whole lives, but had never met...(even though we had mutual friends)
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  • DH and I met online too. Match.com to be exact. He was the best risk I ever took!


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  • DH & I started working for a call center on the same day, so we were in the same training class.  We didn't really hit it off at first. I was dating someone else and so was he. Then I saw his car, and being a bit of a car junkie, I knew I wanted to date him just so I could go for a ride in his car.  Well, we became really good friends at work.  One day he happened to mention tome that he had broken up with his gf.  About a week later the boy I was dating broke up with me.  We went out on a "date" the next week and the rest is history. 
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  • Blind Date

    I bought a house, the previous owners and I stayed friends (since I was single and my parents lived in another state, the husband kinda still looked after the house for me).  One day a package came to my house for them so I brought it over to their new house.  As the wife and I were sitting there talking, she said, "hey, I have someone you should meet."  They all went to church together.  Turns out he is a sports broadcaster and has a sports radio show.  So, I started listening to him.  He said something I didn't agree with so I emailed him about it and told him he was wrong.  Guess he liked that and we emailed back and forth for a little while and finally met up one night.  Our first meeting was before we were supposed to actually meet at a party the couple was throwing.

    We were engaged 5 months later and married a little over a year after that.

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  • From our wedding website:

    Diana and Jake met during their freshman year at the College of Saint Rose, while Jake was interested in Diana, she clearly was not. Therefore, we both spent the next four years leading separate lives until our Senior year when we got re-acquainted by our mutual friend Sarah. It took a couple of months of spending time together before Diana agreed to be Jake?s girlfriend, but he says she was worth the wait.

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  • I met DH on match.com too!!!!  I went out with 2 guys before that - like 2 dates each.  One I call "unemployed Tom" - he actually told me he was looking for a "sugar momma".  Yeah, um, no.  The other I refer to as "pedophile Dan".  I don't actually think he was one, but he was a creeper for sure.  He told me after our 2nd date that he had gotten banned from another dating site for "bothering" a girl.  Um, yeah, see you buddy. 

    The only reason I went out with DH after those two winners was b/c it turned out we actually had gone to the same high school - he was a senior when I was a freshman, but we didn't know each other then.  We did; however, have some mutual friends, so I figured maybe he wasn't a total wack job and lucky for him - he wasn't.   :-)

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  • We met at a young adult meeting through our church here in Mexico.

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  • The first time? He was working as a computer lab attendant in my dorm building at college. He couldn't fix my computer, so I lost my term paper. I thought he was an idiot, he thought I was an idiot. It was really quite romantic.

    Fast forward a year and a half later, I was dating his friend.  Once his friend and I broke up, we started dating.

    The rest, as they say, is history!


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  • DH and I were high school sweethearts. I asked him out and our first date was a double date.
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  • elisbuelisbu member

    Match.com!!!

    I had actually just started seeing someone else, that I met through a friend, about two weeks before out first date. We started e-mailing at Christmas and couldn't figure out plans till February! We went to lunch the Sunday after Valentines Day (I had gone out with other guy for v-dayEmbarrassed) and I wasn't sure if he was my type. He called everyday that week, I never called him back.

    That Friday I went to Happy Hour with friends and invited DH and the other guy! Other guy showed up, had a drink, and left about 10 mintues before DH showed up. My friend told me she liked DH SOOOOO much more than the other guy, so even though I still wasn't sure, I went out with him again the next night......then it was love!

    We were engaged 9 months later and married 8 weeks after that.

    Everyone thought I was pregnant ( I wasn't)....who gets the last laugh now as I sit here in the TTCAL board!!!

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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    We also met online.  Big Smile

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    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

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    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

  • We were set up on a blind date by one of Ron's freinds. I had worked with the guy.
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  • I was DH's trainer when he started working at the restaurant I was working at.  We didn't start dating for another 3 weeks because I was seeing someone else.  Then one day after work we went to get a bite to eat just as two co-workers going to eat and we were there for almost 2 hours just talking.  We didn't want the "date" to end so we went to see a movie.  (Which we both feel asleep in - Ha ha!!)  I broke up with the guy I was seeing the next day.  We dated for a year and a half before we got engaged and then we were married a year after that. 
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  • Met DH junior year of HS. I had a crush on his friend but he was so hung up on my bestfriend. So I made him introduce me to DH best choice I ever made! Been with him for 11 years this November!
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  • Match.com!!  We went out several times and I just couldn't decide if I liked him "that way" or if we should just be friends.  After about a month I told him I just wanted to be friends and figured our relationship in general would be over.  He stuck around for many many months as my friend and was the best friend I could have.  I went out with another guy and it hit me on my date with him that I would so much rather be with DH.  I told DH and we started dating again.  We were engaged three months later.  DH later told me that he only stuck around as my friend because he knew he would eventually wear me down.  :)

  • jodyrmjodyrm member

    I met mine through an ex-boyfriend. They were roommates, and I'd be hanging out with my boyfriend at the time, and always thinking how lucky someone would be to get to marry someone like my DH. Then me and my BF broke up, and like 6 months later my DH and I started talking/hanging out.

    Yeah I know, I was classy. 

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  • Technically we met in an English lit course in college, literary analysis to be exact. But we "met" as in first started to become interested in each other some time after that. We met at an underground (literally, it was in an abandoned bomb shelter) rock club that I frequented and he'd just stumbled into. We talked about Hunter S. Thompson over really terrible loud indie rock. It was awesome.
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  • DH and I were high school sweethearts.  We met through FFA.
  • dh and I met online too.  not match.com though, a different dating website that used to (don't know if it still is) be around.  His roomate told him to get on the website and check it out and a friend of mine got me to sign up.
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  • Dh and I both worked at Buger Hut while we were in college.  When I first started there he had hair longer than mine!  I thought he was fun to hang out with, but never thought about dating him.  Then a few months later he cut his hair into a mullet, yes a mullet.  After 2 weeks of that, he shaved it all off.  I had left my wallet at his house and went to go pick it up and saw him from behind and thought who is this guy?  He looks kind of cute.  5 years later we were married.
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  • DH and I met at my BFF's 18th birthday party. He was in the band Stick out tongue
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  • We met at work.  I had just graduated nursing school and got a job at the hospital.  He was in college at the time and worked part time as a transporter.  We couldn't stand each other at first.  He would always come up and talk(flirt) with all the nurses.  I never talked to him because I was busy working.  Then one day another nurse asked me to go out with her one night-I didn't know that she had asked him and his friend to go too.  We hung out that night and became friends.  We became best friends.  We talked on the phone all the time.  Then after about six moths he asked me to go on a date with him-and we have been together for 9 years now.
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  • imageCashewsMommy:
    DH and I met online too. Match.com to be exact. He was the best risk I ever took!

     

    me too :)

    met some weirdos, including a 27 year old who wore those old man orthopedic shoes and held my hand a stroked it the whole time we ate dinner, but I met Joe too and that's worked out pretty well :)

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  • Our meeting was like something out of a sitcom. I moved into a house with Sean and another guy. Turns out the other guy offered me the place because he wanted to get together with me, but the day I moved in and met Sean I knew he was "the one".

    Hilarity ensued.

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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    I met DH the 2nd week of Frosh yr of college.  Been together ever since, this Nov will be 10 yrs!
    Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days) Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD... Jan 2011 - IVF #1 - C/P Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies May 2011 - FET #1 - BFP!! Twins!!! 2/9/12 - Our precious miracles arrived! Baby A 7lbs 13oz & Baby B 5lbs 13oz
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