Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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A heavy heart...
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Today was a hard day in my PPost I posted that this morning that my FI boss miscarried and I didnt cry but later broke down before work.... I just started working at a daycare with infants from about 5 months to around 22 months and its been going ok getting used to being around so many kids is hard. Today I told the other 2 women that work with me that I was planning to take the 24th of September cause is was going to be my Aerons EDD. I havent really come out and said that I had a MC to them but decided to tell them. I said that I was PG and that the 24th was suppose to be my due date and my FI and I were going to do something speical... One of the ladies said "Your due date?" then looked at me like I was crazy since I would be around 7 1/2 months PG right now and of course am not! I said "yes my due date I was PG and had a MC at almost 7 weeks" she look at me and without skipping a beat she said "Oh you made it sound like you were really pregnant" I said I was really PG and went on to say that she thought that I was really PG then lost the baby. I guess to her my baby wasnt real yet at 7 weeks! My heart dropped more my Aeron Bean was real! Never once since I lost Aeron have I said oh well at least I wasnt REALLY PG JUST ALITTLE PG.... I just wanted to cry and yell at this lady for calling my angel fake! I went on with my day with those words in the back of my head! Is this week over yet?
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Re: A heavy heart...
We love and miss you Jillian (18w) and Peanut (6w). Welcome to our TAC miracle Jacob!
BFP #1 - 04/09/10 -- m/c - 07/02/10 @ 20weeks and 3 days. D&C 07/02/2010 - EDD 11/16/10
BFP #2 12/17/10 please stick turtle. EDD 8/29/11 - Emergency C-Section 7-2-11. Andrew's journey
Congratulations to my TTCAL buddy Carolee on her BFP! Stick, baby!
Congratulations to elbandas09, cherylanddoug, tctibbe(MsPegees) and alliejoe for their take home babies!
I know how you are feeling. Some people just dont understand, I dont think that they are trying to be rude, they are just really unaware of that bond that forms instantly when you are carrying your baby. Unless you have experienced a loss, most women have no clue how to feel or feel sympathy for you. I am so sorry for what they said. Your baby was real, and now he is a real angel.
Me:26 PCOS, IR, MTHFR c677t/c677t, arcuate uterus DH:27 4% morphology
11/2006 Married My DH
Started trying on Honeymoon
2009/2009 4 failed clomid cycles, many BFN, PCOS Study
4/2010 5 rounds of femara resulted in BFP!
6/2010 Lost our little poppy.
7/2010 DX: MTHFR C677t/C677t
2/23/2011 Starting first IUI cycle. Follistim and ovidrel. Fingers crossed...
First IUI=BFN Second IUI=BFN
9/2011: IUI 3,4,5,6 BFN
1/2012 New year New plan... First consult for IVF.
4/3/2012 First day of our 1st IVF cycle..
5/16 ER 14R 6M 5F (25+ empty follicles)
5/19 ET 3dt of 2 grade A 8 cell embabies!!! Stick baby stick
8dp3dt BFP! Beta#1 12dp3dt 136, #2 14dpt 336, #3 16dpt 845
6/19/2012 7w HB 131!!! 6/27/2012 8w HB 173
Baby Delaney is scheduled to be induced Jan 30, 2013!!
I am so sorry you had to deal with that... People can be so insensitive. Your Aeron was real, and no one can say otherwise! I will keep you in my prayers.
People are crazy!!! Sometimes I can't figure out if they are trying to be helpful and just say the wrong things or if they honestly are that dumb/ mean.
Sorry that she said that to you. Know that you are a mommy with an angel waiting for you- don't let anyone take that from you.