Do you let them stay in their crib as long as they aren't crying? DS should be taking his afternoon nap right now, but I hear him talking to himself. He's not upset, so I will leave him in there until he starts to cry or it's about the time he normally gets up from his nap. I figure even if he isn't sleeping, he needs some down time.
Re: If you put LO down for a nap but they don't fall asleep...
As long as he isn't crying, I leave DS alone! As you said, even downtime is good. Plus, I felt like the more time he spent just hanging in his crib, the more he would like it and be comfortable there.
Now, I actually have a hard time getting him out in the morning! He wants to roll around and play forEVER!
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
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