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The bad news keeps coming (T&P for my friend)

WOW - I cannot believe the things that have been happening since last week.

I just found out that my friend's nephew (2 years old) drowned at a home daycare. I remember he was born the day before her wedding. That is such a tight knit family, I can't even imagine what they are going through right now. I don't know why he was going to that daycare - the lady wasn't licensed and she had 22 kids in her care alone. The max according to the ministry of Education is 5 kids to one adult.

My heart is breaking for them.

On top of that she is sitting at her OB's office right now about to find out if her third attempt at a baby is a viable pregnancy.

Any leftover T&P's you have (because I know I asked for many last week) would be much appreciated.

ETA: I just re-read the article, the little boy's babysitter had taken him there to play with the children at the daycare.

ETA 2: Sorry... I'm a little upset and didn't take the time to read the whole article, just skimmed through it. The lady who's house they were at only watches 5 children, but she has these playdates with other caregivers and kids every Wednesday. It is still suspected though that there were not enough adults present.

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Re: The bad news keeps coming (T&P for my friend)

  • How heartbreaking. Broken Heart

    Sending lots of T&Ps.

  • How heartbreaking.  Sending her my T&P.  ((hugs))
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  • Oh my God, that is so awful! T&P for her family.
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  • Oh my goodness Sad Thoughts and Prayers for her family.
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  • I am so so sorry for them.  It really hurts my heart.  I hope your friend gets some good news today as I am sure she really needs it.  T&Ps to all of them and to you.  (((hugs)))

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  • Oh no! I'm sending her and her family lots of thoughts and prayers and crossing my fingers extra tight that her pregnancy is ok.
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  • Oh no...that is so sad and heartbreaking.  My T&P's are with the family.

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  • OMG that is terribly sad news. I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
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  • So sad.   T&Ps!
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    That is just heartbreaking.  Sending lots of prayers.  
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  • That is just devastating!!!  My thoughts and prayers are with that family.
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  • How incredibly heartbreaking.  Lots of t&p's.
  • Oh my, that is so awful!  My heart is breaking for that family.  Lots of t&p to them.
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  • I"m So sorry. That is horrible. Sending my Thoughts and prayers!!!
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  • Oh how aweful, many t&p!!
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  • That's terrible. Many good thoughts for your friend!

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  • I will continue to keep you and your friends and family in my thoughts and prayers ((HUGS)) I'm so sorry all this is happening. 
  • Oh no!  That is heartbreaking.  I will say a prayer for the family and friends involved.

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  • This breaks my heart :( My thoughts and prayers are with them.

    so terrible :(

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  • How horrible! T&P for that family!
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  • That is so sad.  They are definitely in my prayers.

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  • Sending T & P their way. That is so heartbreaking Crying

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  • My heart is breaking for your friend. How awful. T&P sent her way and for her family. 
  • Oh that is so sad. Sending lots of prayers their way

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