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ivf or adoption

Court1Court1
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
That's the topic of discussion in our living room tonight. We've got time before we get there, but I wanted to know what DH would want to do. We've decided we can only afford one or the other....still unsure.
Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    It's a really hard discussion.

    :::hugs::::

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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    I think we'll be having that conversation soon in our household.  ((hugs))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs. Will keep you in my thoughts.

    Jenn

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  • dandyelledandyelle

    We just had that discussion in our house too. It's a toughie. (((hugs)))

    Whatever you decide, we'll be here for you throughout!

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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    That has to be a hard conversation to have (((HUGS)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Hugs.  That's a really tough decision. 
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg
    I give you a lot of credit for beginning this discussion early. It is not easy, and I know that the decision that you make will be right for both of you. hugs.
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    That's a very tough decision and I'm so sorry you have to make it. GL.
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • ShemicoShemico member

    *big hugs*

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  • schen0510schen0510
    That is a super hard conversation to have...and a decision you should not rush in to.  In the end though...you will make the decision that is best for the both of you.  ((hugs))
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  • ade2beade2be
    I hope it went well.  Its such a hard topic!
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    That's really tough. I hope you guys come to an agreement that feels right for both of you.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • SweetieD21SweetieD21 member

    I know I'm late to this post, but hope the discussion went well.  Sending you a BIG HUG for support!

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