I'm going in 2 weeks and DH probably won't be able to make it... how many of you got a guess as to the gender of baby at that appointment? I'm dying to know what the u/s tech thinks (if she can even tell) but I don't want to know if DH can't be there, and I don't know if DH should try to make it just in case!
Re: How many of you got a gender guess at NT scan?
My little man at 0-1-2
our u/s tech guessed girl and she was right.
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We were told boy at the NT scan and girl at the 20week.
My clinic's policy is that they don't even look between the legs
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Tech didn't even offer a guess- I was measuring 12 weeks exactly.
Honestly I wouldn't want them to even try- it's not like I'd believe them at that point anyways!
Not I. The u/s tech actually gets really annoyed if you even ask lol, so I didn't even bother.
Ditto.
I did, which was at 11w6d, and then they had to redo the scan at 13w1d so we got the same guess again.
I honestly didn't even think they would offer to look and I wasn't going to ask them to because I figured it wouldn't be too accurate so I'd want to wait, but when the tech offered to look we figured what the heck and said sure!
By the way, the guess is boy (and it actually seemed pretty obvious to us), which I've heard is much easier to guess at than girl!
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I had a gender guess at both of my NT scans.
They guessed "girl" for DD (correct) and "girl" for my current pregnancy (wrong - he is definitely a he!). So 50/50.
It is just a guess. And honestly even with the best equipment and tech it is a SLIGHT slight slight difference between boys and girls. I read a study online that said only 17% of boys are "guessed" correctly at the NT scan.
I just would skip the guess if your DH can't be there and it bothers you. It is inaccurate and then you both can look forward to the big reveal at 20 weeks without your expecttions being clouded by an early u/s.
I got a guess at 11w5d, I believe. The tech had been right on my friend's 3 kids, so I felt pretty comfortable with her guess. She told me 80% it's a girl. The baby wasn't hiding or anything, but sometimes things don't develop until later, and they all start out looking like girls.
It turned out to be a boy at the 18 week sono. I'd say if they say it's a boy you have a much greater chance of them being right.
Not us.
If your DH cannot be there then tell them not even to venture a guess, since early guesses can be wrong much more frequently than later guesses.