DD's 2nd bday is coming up and I am trying to find a theme/colors for her party. I am having a hard time because she is not into any characters or specific things and I not very creative. I really like this but SIL used the 1st bday stuff like this for my niece's birthday(3 years ago). It doesn't bother me to use something someone else used and other than SIL, MIL, and us no one else will be at DD's party that was at my niece's. BUT, SIL will tell everyone that she just loves that and she used it for her DD 1st birthday, etc. That will be all she talks about for the whole day and then call all her friends and tell them too. She is very competitive when it comes to me and my kids vs her kids for some reason.
Would you use it anyway or find something else?
Re: Silly, possibly immature ?
Well, if you don't care, then use it. BUT, it sounds as if it's going to bother you that SIL will make comments.
I agree with the PP. There are so many OTHER themes out there!
I did a "Tea for 2" party for DD#1's 2nd birthday. Very cute!
Is it possible to head her off at the pass? Say something like, "I just loved what you did for your LO's birthday party and I was inspired to do something similar"?
If not, I'd just find something else.
here are some of my favorite party inspiration sites if you have time to browse through- you might find a good idea in here, they've all had a bunch of really cute kids parties:
https://www.hostessblog.com/
https://www.letsentertain.net/lets_entertain/birthday/
https://creativepartyplace.com/
Brady Phoenix, 8.29.09
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If you're concerned your SIL will make a small scene about it then choose something else.
I really like the Lady Bugs theme.
Just do colors or rainbows!. Go to the Mexican/Fiesta section of a party store and get some rainbow streamers and those crepe balls and colorful plates. And balloons.
It looks so festive and pretty. And no need for a character theme. Kids go crazy for those crepe paper balls.