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ConfuzzledTrishConfuzzledTrish member
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My pregnancy ended yesterday at 4.5 weeks.  I started bleeding after getting a BFP last week.

The doctor I saw yesterday told me that it could be a false positive (all 12 of them, I suppose).  She clearly didn't believe I was ever pregnant.  It made me so angry that she was minimizing my loss.

The lady who brought me the paperwork for the lab was pregnant.  It was kind of another stab in the wound.

However, the office called me today to say my HCG was 10.  So it WAS real.  My heart aches. :(

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DD born 07/2011 DD due 11/18/2013
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  • elisbuelisbu member
    I am so sorry. I hate it everytime someone new has to join us. Broken Heart
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  • tctibbetctibbe member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and sad you had to deal with such an obnoxious doctor. 
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  • stillwaiting12stillwaiting12
    I'm so sorry for your loss and also for all of the stupidity you had to deal with at your Dr's. I wish you didn't have to join us over here but I hope you find comfort.
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member
    Great way to minimize your loss.  Virtual ::smack:: to your doctor.  So sorry for your loss and to have to welcome you to the board.

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  • kristaskristas member
    Hugs. I am sorry to hear about how insensitive your doctor was/is. Welcome to the board and I hope you find comfort from the ladies here- they are the best!
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  • js297206js297206 member

    So sorry for your loss... and I'm sorry your Dr minimized the loss as if it was nothing.

    ((hugs))

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  • shanna82shanna82 member
    So sorry that your OB acted that way and for your loss.  This board is full of great women that can hopefully help you in this horrible time.
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  • Ernie52408Ernie52408 member
    I'm sorry for your loss and for the crappy doctor.
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  • ohashletohashlet member
    I'm so sorry, m'dear :(
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sorry to hear how your OB acted. So sorry for your loss.

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  • stillbakingstillbaking member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. And for your insensitive doctor. Hugs to you.
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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    I am so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    I am so sorry for your loss and that your doctor wanted to write it off as a false positive.  It doesn't matter how far along you were, a loss hurts no matter what.  I hope you can find some support here. T&Ps
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  • Lkat17Lkat17 member
    (((big hugs)))

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  • schlud01schlud01 member
    I am so sorry for your loss, and even more sorry that the horible doctor made you feel like it wasnt real. We are all here for you.
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