Who to invite?

awireman · July 2010

My SIL and a friend our throwing me a shower for my 2nd child. My other child will be 7 when this one is born. We have had several people ask about us having a shower, but they are not really close friends that I woulld invite to a second shower.

My family does tae kwon do and they are people we met through there, we see each other 4 nights a week and all have dinner once a week. I do consider them friends but only about 4 of the moms. I don't want to offend the others by not inviting them but also don't want to look greedy . Should I invite them to my shower, or wait to see if someone mentions doing one with just the tkd moms?

awireman · July 2010

I need to spell check I guess before sending

CourtneyR2N · July 2010

Here is what I would do, if people have asked you about it then they are interseted in coming to a shower so I would definitely put them on the list even if you wouldn't have initially.

And I would invite all of the TKD ladies. I think inviting some and not others would hurt feelings. You can put them on your list tentitively and if anyone mentions doing something just that group, then you can take them all off of the other shower list.

heatherglen814 · July 2010

CourtneyR2N:
Here is what I would do, if people have asked you about it then they are interseted in coming to a shower so I would definitely put them on the list even if you wouldn't have initially.
And I would invite all of the TKD ladies. I think inviting some and not others would hurt feelings. You can put them on your list tentitively and if anyone mentions doing something just that group, then you can take them all off of the other shower list.

This... exactly.

martinakraus · July 2010

I also agree with previous comments:)

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