I think that is over thinking it. Millions of Ashley's world wide have survived. It's fine.
This.
DITTO. Asher is a beautiful name.
I agree!
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I have an Asher who is 4. He has never had a hard time with his name, nor accidently called himself Asser, Nor have any or his preschool friends. Or his 2 year old brother. Will crappy kids on the elementary playground call him that, maybe. But kids will make fun of ANY name. I get TONS of compliments about his name. It's a great name. Means "happy or blessed" and it suits him. My other son's is named Laird. People have a harder time with that, but still like it once they meet him. And yes he will probably get called Lard at some point. Kids will get teased about something, I hope to raise boys with enough self esteem to handle it, right?
Go for it! The bigger problem with Asher is that it is becoming more popular! He probably won't be the only Asher he knows!
I think that is over thinking it. Millions of Ashley's world wide have survived. It's fine.
This. And from what I hear from a couple friends who are grade school teachers, they don't hear kids getting made fun of for their names these days; it seems as if there are so many different names and so many 'weird' names that they don't waste their time thinking of that kind of insult anymore--they just call each other sl*ts and wh*res.
I think that is over thinking it. Millions of Ashley's world wide have survived. It's fine.
This. And from what I hear from a couple friends who are grade school teachers, they don't hear kids getting made fun of for their names these days; it seems as if there are so many different names and so many 'weird' names that they don't waste their time thinking of that kind of insult anymore--they just call each other sl*ts and wh*res.
Lol, this is... comforting? I agree though, if a kid's going to tease, he's going to tease regardless of name.
OP I love the name Asher! If you're worried, don't start calling him Ash as a nn and kids won't think of it on their own at least until they can say it.
Well, when he gets older it's probably going to turn to @$$ or @$$er, due to the simularity, and kids mess with each other like that when they get older. But, aside from that if it doesn't bother you, i think it's fine. If you don't over think it Asher is a nice unique name
I think that is over thinking it. Millions of Ashley's world wide have survived. It's fine.
This. And from what I hear from a couple friends who are grade school teachers, they don't hear kids getting made fun of for their names these days; it seems as if there are so many different names and so many 'weird' names that they don't waste their time thinking of that kind of insult anymore--theyjust call each other sl*ts and wh*res.
We too are naming our son Asher. My mom laughed when I told her and said that DS#1 will probably sound like he's calling him a**hole or bastard when trying to pronounce it. I just shrugged it off because we LOVE the name! It will be alright I'm sure!
Re: Concern with nn's for Asher
yes
and have you heard 3 and 4 year olds try to pronounce the "sh" sound? doesn't happen
This.
DITTO. Asher is a beautiful name.
I agree!
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We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
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I'm an Ashley, I never have problems with little kids saying the "sh" part, just the "l" part, I get lots of Ash-ee, so Asher should be fine!
THIS and ditto most everyone else. One of my friend's kids is an Asher. no issues. none.
I have an Asher who is 4. He has never had a hard time with his name, nor accidently called himself Asser,
Nor have any or his preschool friends. Or his 2 year old brother. Will crappy kids on the elementary playground call him that, maybe. But kids will make fun of ANY name. I get TONS of compliments about his name. It's a great name. Means "happy or blessed" and it suits him. My other son's is named Laird. People have a harder time with that, but still like it once they meet him. And yes he will probably get called Lard at some point. Kids will get teased about something, I hope to raise boys with enough self esteem to handle it, right?
Go for it! The bigger problem with Asher is that it is becoming more popular! He probably won't be the only Asher he knows!
This. And from what I hear from a couple friends who are grade school teachers, they don't hear kids getting made fun of for their names these days; it seems as if there are so many different names and so many 'weird' names that they don't waste their time thinking of that kind of insult anymore--they just call each other sl*ts and wh*res.
Lol, this is... comforting? I agree though, if a kid's going to tease, he's going to tease regardless of name.
OP I love the name Asher! If you're worried, don't start calling him Ash as a nn and kids won't think of it on their own at least until they can say it.
That is so wrong, but this made me lol.
I don't think the nn Ash will be a problem.