Do you hold a Bump grudge?

lmpdjc · July 2010

If you disagree with a poster's opinions or get p!ssed off about something they do or say, do you remember their SN and hold a grudge?

robinsokj · July 2010

Absolutely

whitward87 · July 2010

Yes and I usually ignore what they say in future posts if they were a b*tch before.

MrsTaterSalad · July 2010

I have a grudge against you haha just kidding... I do on other boards but not this one!

simplyatomic · July 2010

Sometimes yes. Just depends on what was said.

diana.filipi · July 2010

A lot do, some don't...I do sometimes but not generally

MrsRebecca · July 2010

I'm not a grudge holder. I definitely remember ignorant/rude things people say but I don't usually hold grudges.

I am, however, holding a real life grudge. And I will probably hold onto it forever, LOL.

mrshaines · July 2010

Depending on what was said then yes, I would hold a grudge. But as far as remembering the sn, no way.

murfygirl · July 2010

Unless it was something completely ignorant and rude no. We all come from different walks of life and are going to have different opinions! ItalianVegas and I got into it in 2nd tri, we met and ended up hitting it off and having loads of fun we even stayed in a hotel room together with our babies. SO no I do not hold a grudge at all.

Soto Pop · July 2010

no.

i'm not always going to agree with everyone about everything and that's okay.

Hip2Bsquare · July 2010

To me, if someone says something totally retarded or ignorant you can't help but to remember what their sn name is. If you are on the boards a lot then you really start to remember what posters believe, what they post about etc.

After a while I can't bite my tongue anymore when that poster says something stupid, lame, etc.

I don't hold grudges but I hate drama and I avoid certain posters like the plague.

katie.i.do · July 2010

only very rarely, debate or argumentwise.

there are bumpies that just consistently rub me the wrong way due to clashing personalities or who seem particularly dumb, AW-ish, or annoying, and i will take note of that and dismiss their opinions accordingly. Wink

StrawberryAlarmClock · July 2010

Sort of. If they said something idiotic, I dismiss all future commentary. If they were a cvnt rag, I just totally ignore their posts. Sort of the eSilent treatment.

smittysoup · July 2010

If I held bump grudges I would speak to pretty much no one

BellaAmor215 · July 2010

I don't really hold grudges but I do give some bumpies the eye roll...

xcjen06 · July 2010

No - with one exception, there is one poster on a different board I frequent and I flat out don't read a word of anything she writes.

teelaman · July 2010

Not really. I mean, I don't hold "grudges" against people who I just plain old disagree with (or say stupid things), I remember them, but don't hold a grudge. I do though, remember people who make personal attacks (against anyone) and generally don't look to them for advice or anything else in future posts.

NastyAnnie · July 2010

I don't hold grudges. That's dumb. I have nothing against anyone on the bump, personally.

I do, however, have a pretty excellent memory, and if a poster says or does something that stands out to me as stupid or bad, I remember it. If the occasion arises, I will bring it up, or remind someone else of said offense. But if the poster is just trying to move on and not stir the pot any more, I usually let things slide.

Brytany09 · July 2010

Not really. I dismiss certain posters, but that's about it. I see no point in getting my panties in an e-wad over someone I don't even know.

bb80 · July 2010

Italiannvegas:

To me, if someone says something totally retarded or ignorant you can't help but to remember what their sn name is. If you are on the boards a lot then you really start to remember what posters believe, what they post about etc.

After a while I can't bite my tongue anymore when that poster says something stupid, lame, etc.

I don't hold grudges but I hate drama and I avoid certain posters like the plague.

irony at it's best

you are ignorant for using the "R" word....

and no, i won't hold a grudge because of it because i like you

bb80 · July 2010

and to answer the OP's question, yes i hold grudges, but it really takes a lot for me to hold one

k.martell · July 2010

I don't really consider it a grudge, but I do ignore the person. I see their topic/reply and just skip right over it w/o reading it. I probably should just put them on my ignore...

denahamilton@cox.net · July 2010

smittysoup:
If I held bump grudges I would speak to pretty much no one

THIS LOL

My views are usually pretty different from the majority of moms on this board. I am the opposite of AP.

adcffaa · July 2010

simplyatomic:
Sometimes yes. Just depends on what was said.

This.

gingerfamily · July 2010

I don't hold a grudge but I do remember if someone is just plain stupid.

broomy · July 2010

One time, I tried to hold a grudge against someone who was a snarky btch to me for no reason, but within a week, I forgot her SN. Stick out tongue

rodgersonmumma · July 2010

One poster on this board. I think she is a know-it-all and an idiot. Those two things dont go well together. We argued about something a long time ago and now I will not even look at her posts, because she usually says something to p!ss me off.

sapgirl76 · July 2010

mrsh0606:
I don't hold a grudge but I do remember if someone is just plain stupid.

Yes Bingo!

Hip2Bsquare · July 2010

bb80:
Italiannvegas:

To me, if someone says something totally retarded or ignorant you can't help but to remember what their sn name is. If you are on the boards a lot then you really start to remember what posters believe, what they post about etc.

After a while I can't bite my tongue anymore when that poster says something stupid, lame, etc.

I don't hold grudges but I hate drama and I avoid certain posters like the plague.

irony at it's best

you are ignorant for using the "R" word....

and no, i won't hold a grudge because of it because i like you

Oh Lord Jesus I broke the silent "R" word rule.... Confused

MrsHT · July 2010

For sure!!!!! Every time i read a post and this one person responds i get upset. She wrote someone on my post one time about feeling bad for my child and husband because I am a Packers fan. Lol I know it is stupid, but I was not in the best mood when I read it and there is no turning back now.

g8trkim · July 2010

There are too many people on here. I couldn't remember a SN if I tried. So, no I don't hold a grudge.

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