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Annoyed at dh

butterfly843butterfly843
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I know I shouldn't be, today he went fishing with his friends. They finished later then he thought so he came home quick to change and went back out to play cards with his friends. While I'm stuck home alone, I was suppose to go to a bachelorette party, but decided to stay home in case I start bleeding tonight I don't want to deal with that while they are all bar hopping in the city and they are taking a limo so I wouldn't have my car to head home if I had to. I'm still having a hard time with this loss and just wishing dh would have stayed home.

Jenn

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IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    I'm sorry, the whole situation sucks, all the way around. Hugs.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    I'm sorry. Can you call him and say you really want him to come home?
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    I'm so sorry!  ((Hugs))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843

    imageShellShockedMama:
    I'm sorry. Can you call him and say you really want him to come home?

    I would but I don't want to be the annoying wife. When they went out a week ago he had to rush home to do my progesterone shot and most of them didn't know why he was heading home quickly they thought I gave him a curfew. Doesn't help that 2 of my good friends are on vacation, the others are at the party and my sister is working late.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

    I'm sorry. 

    I'd probably call and be the annoying wife. I mean, it's not like you're out of cream for your coffee and need him to get it for you. You're going through a loss, you need him. Maybe call and see if he can just come home a little earlier? Kinda meet in the middle? 

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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    imageShellShockedMama:

    Maybe call and see if he can just come home a little earlier? Kinda meet in the middle? 

    I think that would be fair. I'm so sorry you're going through this and that you're home alone :( Big hugs sweetie.  

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  • ShemicoShemico member
    *big hugs* I'm sorry hun. I'd be upset too, sometimes guys just don't get it.
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  • rjl07rjl07
    II would be annoyed too.  Hopefully he can come home early.  We'll keep you company until he gets home.
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  • babes12babes12 member
    i'm sorry. sometimes men just don't understand.  i hope he'll at least come home alittle earlier for you.  (((hugs)))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I hope for his sake he isn't out too late. The first time he went out after our first loss he was out till 4am. We had a big long talk about that one. Just sucks cause I have been crampy the last 2 days and just want this to start. I feel bad drinking right now even though I know I shouldn't.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

    my blog

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm sorry, I would be annoyed too.  You guys are in this together.  While it's physical for you, you need him to be there to support you.  Sometimes they just don't get it.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Thanks guys and now it's thundering here. My poor dog is freaking out and curled up in my lap, don't know what I would do without you guys or my puppy.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

    my blog

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  • rjl07rjl07

    I wish the rain would actually cool things off.  It is so gross here.  They are forecasting it to be 88 degrees by 8 am tomorrow. 

    Poor puppy. Surprisingly thunder doesn't bother my psycho dog.

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