I usually don't let him near my breasts anymore, they remind me too much of DS. So I usually leave my bra on, although last time, I pumped right before, didn't where a bra and had no leakage.
I wore my bra with breast pads in them the first time. This last time we did it I was naked and didn't have any issues with leaking. DH was even able to kiss on them a bit without getting any milk.
Re: can we discuss sex this early?
I don't leak anymore unless he fondles them or it's been awhile between feedings.