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Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
We lost the baby...
I took Miso (something)... at around 2:30 pm (disolved 4 pills between my gums and lips to make the process quicker, per my doctor) and I'm going through the process. I feel numb...and a lot of cramping and pain. I just wanted to update everyone. Thank you for your support. I guess someone will pass on the handshake and secret passwords now that I'm officially a member of the club...(see, my humor isn't totally gone.)
Lor
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Re: We lost the baby...
I am so sorry! It sucks becoming a member of this group, but I promise that everyone here will take good care of you and help you through all of this. Right now you're going through the toughest part, I promise that it slowly gets better. Relax and take good care of yourself.
It's good to see that you still have a sense of humor. Secret handshake = a good mix of crying, complaining,hoping, and saying nice things to each other when we're down! It kind of comes natually with the territory, I'm sure you'll pick it up quickly! Hang in there and trust me when I say that there is nothing that you can't post on here.
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
I am so so sorry you are in pain and are going through this. I don't know much about taking the Miso. but I'm so sorry for your loss.
My heart is breaking for you. I know how bad it hurts. I am so, so sorry. First of all, make sure you take care of yourself. Cry when you need to cry, yell when you need to yell. Screaming into my pillow and sobbing in a hot shower were very theraputic for me. Lean on your DH. I would have been lost without mine.
It gets easier. I promise it does. I got so much support from this board. My blog chronicles my way through our mc if you want a frame of reference.
((hugs))
I am so sorry. I was following your story. It sounded exactly like my last m/c..same thing..levels would go up, but not quite double. I am truly sorry. GL with everything!
HUGS
Rose
3 m/c's
I was following your story because I just had a miscarriage about a week ago. I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you.
I was a complete mess for a while and have up days and down days, but I do feel so much better after being able to to talk to so many people who supported me throughout the whole thing. Right now, for me, it all feels surreal, like it never really happened. I don't know if that's good or bad. ..but I do feel much better, esp. when I stay busy and also, thinking about being able to try again makes me feel better, too.
I hope this process ends quickly for you and that you find all the support you need. I'll be thinking of you...
APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
Thank you, everyone! I'm feeling much better today...much more like myself. I think I'm going to get dressed and leave the house and go to work tomorrow. That's the plan atleast. I need to get back to normal as soon as possible. Right now, I'm thinking about when we will be able to "try" again. My doc thinks it will take a couple of month before my cycle resets itself.
Thanks for being so great!
Lor