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Back from maternity leave rant...

M&MBride0506M&MBride0506
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Ugh...It was so irritating.. My co-worker who is my friend was talking about her new baby and how cute this is and that is.  And although she knows about our situation and she asked how I was doing and where we were it just felt like....ugh.  I was happy for her and I wanted to hear about it but at the same time I wasn't happy for her and didn't want to hear about it.  I know I'm not making any sense..but that's the way IF gets me!!!

Thanks for letting me vent...

My Wonderful Sister is my GC!!!! 3 IUIs, 2 unmedicated, 1 50mg of Clomid = All BFNs Next step IVF!!!! Melinda & Michael 5*6*06 God Bless The Broken Road
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Re: Back from maternity leave rant...

  • lmc5004lmc5004
    I TOTALLY know what you mean.
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    I know what you mean.  A coworker of mine returned from maternity leave today and another coworker returns in a couple weeks.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • amy1004amy1004 member
    Sometime I feel like Jekyl and Hyde.  I want to be happy for people but then in a split second I am upset for my own situation. 
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  • MyShellyBellyMyShellyBelly

    I understand your feelings completely.

    A girl at my office just announced her pregnancy and today she was complaining about how sick she is.  I told her I'd rather be sick from being pg than being on all these meds TRYING to get pg.

    I know she didn't mean any harm by her comments, but nevertheless, they are still heartbreaking. 

    (((HUGS))) to you! 

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