Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

WDYT: Pedi vent

DD had to go see the on call doctor today. I knew going into this that I didn't care for the doctor, but I figured I would give her another shot.

We get to the appointment and DD is fine, she is being a ham for the receptionist and in a good mood. We get into the exam room and when the nurse tried to take her temp she started to freak out. She just recently developed some sort of stranger anxiety. Then the doctor gets in there and DD is still freaking, she is crying like mad and trying to climb as far up onto my should as possible. Even when her head is burried into my neck, she is sobbing. I can't get her to stop, so I have to proceed to talk to the Dr over her cries. Well, the pedi interrupts me multiple times and says she cannot her me, almost in a rude, shut your kid up, way. Then throughout the appointment she plugs her ears. The part that made me the most upset was when she was trying to look at DD's leg, DD tried to reach for the Dr's hands, and she shook her hand away 2 times, like she was some big old hairy spider. It wasn't a soft move her hand out of the way motion, it was a short fast shake.

Am I over reacting? Would this bother you?

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Re: WDYT: Pedi vent

  • Yeah, that doc's behavior sounds odd for a pedi.  I would make sure I NEVER saw her again. 
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  • She seriously plugged her ears? Unbelievable! I would be VERY bothered as well!
  • yeah it would bother me. is she new? when DD acts like that around ours our doctor coos at her and tries to make her laugh, even takes her from me to play with her. i wouldnt want to see that pedi again unless it was an emergency. it sounds as if this pedi has little to no baby experience.
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    She seriously plugged her ears? Unbelievable! I would be VERY bothered as well!

    Oh yeah, multiple times!

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  • That would definitely bother me.  At the same time, I would also consider the possibility that she was just having a very bad day.  Then again, it sounds like you've had a bad experience with this doctor before.  In any event, I think you have the right to be upset.  Whether it's worth changing pedi offices or taking any other action...  not so sure.  I'm sorry you had that experience, and I hope your LO is feeling better!

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  • I have NEVER heard of such a thing! Thats usually all I hear is screaming when I go into our pedis office! So sorry you had such a negative experience with her! :o(
  • WTF? Did that pedi go to the Nana BooBoo School of Medicine? seriously who plugs their ears above the age of 4?
  • That's terrible, I would never see that Dr. again. I don't think you are over reacting. We've always had great experiences with all the Dr.'s in the office we go to, but I wouldn't hesitate to not see one of them again if they acted that way!
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  • She PLUGGED HER EARS?! ?And shook her hands off? ?WTF? ?I would never see that pedi again, and would probably complain to your regular pedi. ?And if you don't get an appropriate response, I would think about changing practices.
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