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I just can't be happy for them

KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
My mom called and told me that my youngest cousin KU his girlfriend.  They haven't been dating long, 6 months at the most.  In fact most of the family didn't even know he had a GF.  This girl is super young, 21ish and already has two kids, the oldest is 4.  I'm not super unhappy or anything, but I'm definitely not happy for them.  She's due in Dec., so they have obviously kept it a secret for a little while already.
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm so sorry you have to deal with that.  I hope you don't have to see them too often.  I would have a hard time being happy for them too.
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  • dandyelledandyelle
    I'm sorry Kristy... That's a tough one.
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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    I wouldn't be happy for them either.
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  • rabstbmomrabstbmom
    I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I think it's perfectly reasonable to not be happy for them. I know I wouldn't be if I were in your place.
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member
    ((hugs)) You definitely don't have to be happy for them.
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  • Court1Court1
    I wouldn't be happy for them.  Not at all.
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    I'm sorry.  I'm not happy for them either!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs, I wouldn't be happy for them either.

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  • sakurasakura

    Sorry to hear that.  You don't have to be happy for them!  Sucks you have to deal that, hun!

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  • sakurasakura

    Sorry to hear that.  You don't have to be happy for them!  Sucks you have to deal that that, hun!

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