TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

dang it, BFN...

i know it's super early to be testing (9dpo) but i was really hoping for a bfp so i would know for sure that i couldn't drink today at the BBQ. 

i always feel terribly guilty if i drink when it's so close to the time to find out if your going to get a bfp or bfn.  ugh. 

anyways, at least i'm not spotting so hopefully i'll know for sure in the next few days.

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Re: dang it, BFN...

  • jen629jen629 member
    I am sorry hon:( ...FWIW I drank a lot on my birthday at 9dpo and got my BFP on 11dpo I think you can have a few drinks and not feel guilty
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
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    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
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  • I'm sorry buddy, however you can still have a few drinks and if you do get a BFP you can remind yourself that the baby doesn't get nutrients from you until 6 weeks, so a few drinks today aren't going to hurt anything. 

    And that's a tidbit from every doctor I've ever had.

    I am sorry about the BFN Sad 

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  • Sorry about the bffn. I got a few way too early last week and had to stop testing. FWIW, I agree with the girls and say have a few drinks! I didn't find out with ds until 6 wks and had been out a few times after he was conceived. Have fun today :)
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • thanks ladies!  my problem is once i start drinking it's hard for me to stop.  LOL  i'm a lush.  Stick out tongue  stupid 2ww is raining on my parade.  i want to just unwind and have some fun.  i'm sure i'll still have a few drinks.  Wink

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
  • oh yah, did i mention i'm getting my hair done (highlighted) before the bbq today too??  i'm really asking for it.  LOL  i wish i didn't worry about everything so much b/c i annoy myself. 

    well time to start getting ready.  have a good day ladies! 

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
  • jen629jen629 member
    imagebabes12:

    oh yah, did i mention i'm getting my hair done (highlighted) before the bbq today too??  i'm really asking for it.  LOL  i wish i didn't worry about everything so much b/c i annoy myself. 

    well time to start getting ready.  have a good day ladies! 

    I think these are all reasons you WILL get a BFPStick out tongue{{HUGS}}
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • I'm sorry, M.  Sad.  Tomorrow!
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  • So sorry, hoping it's just too early. 

    Jenn

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  • i'm sorry. it is early though. My RE would tell you that one or two drinks today is fine. and it's better to enjoy yourself than stress out more!
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • I'm so sorry babes.  Hope you can have fun and relax today. 
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  • Ugh.  Sorry about the BFN.  Have a few guilt-free drinks, though. 

     

  • I'm sorry. I hope it turns to a BFP in a few days!
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Sorry hon. One beer or so would probably be fine.
  • I agree with Jen,,,drink up girlfriend!!!  I would be if I wasn't stuck at work and I am 10DPO.
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  • I'm sorry.  I hope it turns into a BFP in a couple of days!
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  • I'm sorry :(  I hope it turns BFP!!!
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  • Sorry for the BFN! I hope you get that second line in a few days dear. 
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