I would embrace my ever-changing pregnant body more than I did, and not look at myself as getting fat, but growing a life.
I would exercise more than I did.
I would take pregnancy photos.
I just found out yesterday that I'm pregnant and I'm already planning on doing 'your' first two. I did take pregnancy photos so I hope to with this one too. My big vow is to not gain a ton of weight and eat sensibly.
Whether it's the best of times or the worst of times, it's the only time we've got.- Art Buchwald
I am pregnant and I am not really doing anything different except not stressing out about the weight gain. I gained 60lbs with DS and was so freaked out about it. I got the weight off so I am not stressing this time around. I eat fairly reasonable and exercise now i am just going to enjoy the ride.
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If I could start this one over (not that I actually want to!) I would take up prenatal yoga from the beginning like I did with DD#1, I was am much more sore and achy this time and I think it's from lack of yoga! It's hard to find the time though when you have a toddler in the mix but it would be worth it.
My 2 girls, both born on a Friday the 13th, are exactly 2 years, 2 months, 2 hours and 2 minutes apart! And Baby Boy joined us October 11, 2013!
I vowed to not complain about being pregnant like I did when I was pregnant with DS, although my pregnancy with him was HORRIBLE. I was swollen for the last 3 months on bedrest for the last month, couldnt fit into ANY shoes, got stretchmarks on my calves because I was so swollen... and very very high BP.
This time I am so thankful I am not swollen that Im not even complaining about the little swelling I have. Hell Im not complaining about anything.
Only gain 30 lbs instead of 50. Eat more fruits and vegetables, be slightly more active.
Eat better
Worry less ( although this would be very difficult for me)
Buy cuter maternity clothes. I felt so frumpy last time but didn't want to spend the money on nicer clothes. This time I don't care.
Maybe go on a little family vacation just the three of us.
We found out DD sex at the ultrasound but this time I think it would be fun to have a gender reveal party. IT wouldn't be big and wouldn't be a gift giving event. I would just ask my friend ( who is an amazing cake decorator) to make the cake colored according to the gender and we would find out when we cut into the cake.
Oh and hire a maid service to come in and deep clean right before the baby is born
I want professional pictures in the delivery room! And I vow to take the video camera out more in the hospital. We have less than a minute of clips from our hospital stay with DD.
Trying for #2 since July 2010 BFP 8/1/10, missed m/c, D&C 9/15/10. BFP 1/8/11, chemical pregnancy. BFP 3/4/11, measured behind all along, no more HB 4/18/11. D&C 4/29/11. HCG didn't drop, Repeat D&C 6/17/11; confirmed molar pregnancy 6/23/11. Forced break, including two Hysteroscopies in October to remove retained tissue. BFP 12/29/11! Betas @ 10 dpo = 85, 14 dpo= 498, 22 dpo = 7242 Heard HB 1/24/12. 144 bpm!
One things I really regret is not cherishing my time with just DH before DD was born. I was so obsessed with saving money and worried about complications that we didn't really go out much and never took a weekend away. Next time I get pregnant, I hope to cherish our last few months as a family of 3.
Sadly, I haven't done the things I thought I'd do differently. I'm actually less involved with this pregnancy than the first (less time to focus on it). I really regretted not getting pro pics done and swore I'd do them this time. Well, that probably won't be happening either.
Re: ...If I could be pregnant again?...
I just found out yesterday that I'm pregnant and I'm already planning on doing 'your' first two. I did take pregnancy photos so I hope to with this one too. My big vow is to not gain a ton of weight and eat sensibly.
I would do a pro photo-shoot.
I would not make an excuse to eat McDonald's as often as I did last time
Bubblegum Explosion
Ohh, where to start?
-I would get professional maternity photos done.
-I would not take four months to be excited about it.
-I would hire a midwife and hopefully give birth in a birthing centre, or at least a hospital with a tub for me to soak in.
-I would go med free (as I had a bad reaction to my epidural).
-I would get a 3D ultrasound and order the DVD.
-I would go to movies and eat in restaurants on a weekly basis, because that is virtually an impossiblity with my active little guy.
ETA:I would also get hospital photos taken. I go back and forth between wanting a birth photographer, and just wanting hospital pics after the birth.
I vowed to not complain about being pregnant like I did when I was pregnant with DS, although my pregnancy with him was HORRIBLE. I was swollen for the last 3 months on bedrest for the last month, couldnt fit into ANY shoes, got stretchmarks on my calves because I was so swollen... and very very high BP.
This time I am so thankful I am not swollen that Im not even complaining about the little swelling I have. Hell Im not complaining about anything.
- Be more active.
- Eat more healthy if I have a choice (I threw up everything my last pregnancy, so I ate what would stay down).
Only gain 30 lbs instead of 50. Eat more fruits and vegetables, be slightly more active.
Eat better
Worry less ( although this would be very difficult for me)
Buy cuter maternity clothes. I felt so frumpy last time but didn't want to spend the money on nicer clothes. This time I don't care.
Maybe go on a little family vacation just the three of us.
We found out DD sex at the ultrasound but this time I think it would be fun to have a gender reveal party. IT wouldn't be big and wouldn't be a gift giving event. I would just ask my friend ( who is an amazing cake decorator) to make the cake colored according to the gender and we would find out when we cut into the cake.
Oh and hire a maid service to come in and deep clean right before the baby is born
Trying for #2 since July 2010
BFP 8/1/10, missed m/c, D&C 9/15/10.
BFP 1/8/11, chemical pregnancy.
BFP 3/4/11, measured behind all along, no more HB 4/18/11. D&C 4/29/11. HCG didn't drop, Repeat D&C 6/17/11; confirmed molar pregnancy 6/23/11.
Forced break, including two Hysteroscopies in October to remove retained tissue.
BFP 12/29/11! Betas @ 10 dpo = 85, 14 dpo= 498, 22 dpo = 7242
Heard HB 1/24/12. 144 bpm!
Luca Rose born 9/9/12! More than worth the wait!
- Eat healthier / Be more active (more water, less salt - hopefully less swelling)
- Take more pictures during pregnancy and def. during delivery/at the hospital
- try to go med free
- bring my own pajamas to the hospital - I hated that hospital gown
- clean the house thoroughly before birth and not use the excuse of waiting for nesting to kick in, because last time it didn't
- We'll keep the next LO's name a surprise
- professional maternity and newborn photo shoots
- (after pregnancy) Stick with BF longer than I did with DS
Sadly, I haven't done the things I thought I'd do differently. I'm actually less involved with this pregnancy than the first (less time to focus on it). I really regretted not getting pro pics done and swore I'd do them this time. Well, that probably won't be happening either.