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Sometimes the fates are merciful

Orchard27Orchard27 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I have a co-worker out on maternity who gave birth on my first EDD.  I work in a small office and it's common for the moms to bring their babies in regularly.  I happened to be out of the office on the day she brought her daughter in to introduce her (thank the gods).  Yesterday we had a party for someone who is leaving and I knew this co-worker would be coming.  Everyone was chatting all day that she would bring the baby and we'd all get to fuss over her.  I felt so nauseous.  But she ended up coming without the baby!! 

I feel awful, but I am avoiding this baby like the plague.  I can't even bring myself to ask the co-worker about her and I hate that about myself.  I know I will have to svck it up and get over myself, but for now I will take the unexpected gift of a little more time.  :0)

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) glad you weren't in the office the day she came in with her daughter.

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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member
    That's a rough situation, but I'm glad you didn't have to deal with seeing the baby today.  
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