Babies: 9 - 12 Months

In-laws not coming to LO bday party!

I just found out today that only my MIL is coming to LO's birthday. DH has 3 brothers and all of their wifes and one brother is not coming for some reason or another. I wouldn't be so pissed but we go to EVERYTHING. I mean everything, every bbq, baptism, shower, everything! We didn't make it to one birthday party but still sent a card and GC! I guess I just got my feelings hurt that they dont return the favor, especially when I have worked so hard on this birthday!  Sad
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Re: In-laws not coming to LO bday party!

  • I would be upset too! It's hard when others are not as thoughtful as yourself. Like you said, you don't miss anything but I know for others it's no big deal. I guess in the future don't make their events your #1 priority, unless you want too. Sorry. I'm sure the party will be fantastic either way. At least you have those attending who really want to. Have fun!
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  • I would be upset too and I have a feeling that my in-laws might to the same to us. Just like you we go to everyone's birthdays, baptisms, 1st communions,etc. and they didn't show up to our co-ed bridal shower, the wedding rehearsal or the baby shower.  DH has 2 brothers and 4 sisters and only half of them showed up.  I was upset too, especially when they complain that they  never get to see us, but then they never show up.  Oh well...
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    My FIL did not come to the girls 1st birthday party.  I am not surprised because that is typical for him.  He didnt come to his other granddaughters birthdays either.  I am actually surprised he made it to our wedding.  Sucks when you have family that could care less about family.
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  • I would say youre soooo lucky! I cant stand my in laws
  • I'm kinda jealous...LOL I WISH a future IL wouldn't come to the boys bday party.....but I'm not that lucky!
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