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So I'm not an angry person, BUT...

FutureMoutouxFutureMoutoux member
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So.... how about the person who announces that they are pregnant with their second and proceeds to tell you in a one on one conversation that they don't even want to have a second baby... the only reason they are pregnant is because their spouse wants a second baby. AND THEN says as they rub their stomach, so how's it going with your infertility Dr.? Grrrr......... FAMILY....
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Re: So I'm not an angry person, BUT...

  • grazygrazy member
    Why would someone who knows what you are going through say that?!?! UGH!
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  • FutureMoutouxFutureMoutoux member

    I don't know why. I wish I did. I wish it didn't hurt my feelings too. I had one of those days where everywhere I look someone is pregnant. I am happy for those people, but am very tired of waiting for my turn. 

     

    Ok, thanks for letting me vent to you all, who DO understand! 

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  • Faith722Faith722 member
    Wow, that is totally insensitive. And I do know a woman who told me she didn't want kids but went ahead and had one b/c she thought her husband would leave her. Confused
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  • SNB2BSNB2B
    That, my friend, sounds like they deserve a nice punch in the throat.
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  • FutureMoutouxFutureMoutoux member

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    HAHAHAHAHA! Ok, I am cracking up! That's awesome :-) 

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  • koynkoyn member
    people suck
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  • mdluv21mdluv21

    What?!?!  Geez, I am sorry.

     

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
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  • HitchedinINHitchedinIN
    I literally gasped when I read the last sentence. This person knows about your IF and still said this to you?!? I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
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  • Edwina.McDunnoughEdwina.McDunnough
    I'm so sorry, that's crass. Maybe you should ask her how her hemorrhoids are doing and what she'll do about those stretch marks this time?
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  • Mrs. MoMrs. Mo member
    Wow. What a b!tch ! I would have been doing everything I could to not cause her physical harm ( as she's KU) and would have probably used POF's line of "I hope you pee your pants every day of your pregnancy!"


    "Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
    "Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
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  • PurplePanda83PurplePanda83
    GIANT FACE PUNCH!
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  • BenandDinaBenandDina
    This is where I would take a deep breath, roll my eyes, and then, explain to them how insensitive and uncaring and thoughtless they sound.  If they're family, you can't cut them out of your life but you can educate them about how to show you support appropriately as opposed to flaunting their baby belly in your face.
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