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It all makes sense now...

So I need to get this out and I'm not ready/wanting to talk to family or IRL friends about this just yet so I will unload to you guys

I just had Nicholas' 4month well visit and it was hard to say the least. Our pedi isnt very happy with Nicholas' weight gain so far (a big concern for me as you can see based on my post from a few days ago) and based on some of Nicholas' physical characteristics the Pedi really thinks Nicholas has Russell Silver Syndrome which is a genetic condition that has a variety of different issues. So he tells us he wants us to go meet with genetics at Childrens and also Gastro at children's to see if there are any other underlying issues about why Nicholas isnt gaining well... Nicholas also has a flat spot that has continued to get worse and worse and there is a good chance that he will need a helmet also so we are also going to be consulting with plastics down at Childrens' and to top off my "awesome" (please note the sarcasm) visit he has to get his 4month shots too

Im just sitting there trying to hold back tears as I get a list of all the medical things going on--the sh*t I've been suspecting is hitting the proverbial fan at this point...So I'm not crying about things then Nicholas is sobbing from his shots and I basically just leave the pedi's office as quickly as I can...and of course when I get home I google Russell Silver Syndrome (RSS) and look at pictures and read about other characteristics and my heart sinks because it is like looking at pictures of Nicholas--there are pictures that I have of Nicky that are identical to some of the kids w/ RSS...I'm basically just overwhelmed and my thoughts are going to the worst possible place--in a sense if he does have RSS than alot of my nagging questions will be answered, we will know what caused the IUGR and we will know how to move forward but its still really hard to know that there is a good chance that Nicholas will need extra help

I dont really know or expect any sort of reaction to this but I needed to get it out and I dont feel like rehashing it to family/friends (except you guys Smile) this next month is going to be alot of dr's appointments, worry, etc. ugh! I thought I was in the clear for a little (at least in regards to medical issues)

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  • Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. You must have so many thought srunning through your head. I hope you get all the answers you need, rememember knowledge is power. We are all here if you need us.

    On another note, Jack had Plagiocephaly and wore a helmet when he was 6 months old. It worked wonderfully and was so worth it. Feel free to ask any questions you have.

    Best wishes to you!

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    sending you a big huge hug, and hoping you get answers and a clear direction for your strong little boy! 
  • I am sorry that you will have to go through so much in the next month to try to get everything figured out.  But as you know Children's is a great place and I am sure they will get you and your little man on the right track. You'll be in my prayers!
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  • sending big hugs your way!
  • hugs.  it'll be good to get some answers, I'm sure.  At least then you'll be able to move forward and do what's best for him!
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this. Hearing that something might be wrong with your little one is frightening and disheartening! Hopefully the meetings and assessments with the physicians down at Children's will arm you with some good information and a game plan. That might help you get a sense of control and diminish the panic and fear. Please know it is completely normal for you to go through a cycle of emotions like anger, guilt, denial, fear etc. similar to a mourning process if you will. This is totally normal! And right now you're overwhelmed because it's new and scary and you don't have a lot of answers. I'll be thinking about you guys! I hope you get lots of good education from the Dr.s at Children's. Keep us posted! 
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  • OK, because I am a silver lining kind of girl and sometimes have an uncontrollable desire to help, I found this for you....

    What Treatments are Available for Russell-Silver syndrome?

    For RSS and non-RSS/SGA patients, the prospect for a normal life with a normal adult height is closer than ever before. By understanding the importance of aggressively feeding these children, no matter what it takes, we are able to avoid the malnutrition and low blood sugar that in the past has so negatively affected their growth and development. With the recent U. S. Food and Drug Administration's approval of growth hormone for the treatment of the growth failure associated with being born small-for-gestational age, these young children can start the first grade with a normal height if treated early. By taking medications to postpone puberty, called LHRH analogues [LHRHa], the older children can recover growth potential lost in-utero, in infancy and in early childhood. By continuing growth hormone until growth is finished, the teenagers have a better growth spurt during puberty. The figures comparing the average growth of a large sample of untreated, European RSS children to examples of currently treated Russell-Silver Syndrome children are available from MAGIC.

    The RSS Division of MAGIC has information on current therapy and ongoing research involving Russell-Silver syndrome and Small for Gestational Age children. Please contact us if you have questions about treatment options for your child, difficulty arranging medical care for your child, or if you are interested in learning more about ongoing research in the field.

  • :::hugs::: (lots of em!)

    What a rough visit... I couldn't imagine! Try to stay strong but don't be afraid to cry a little...it's a good stress reliever and it doesn't make you a weak person. Thank goodness that Cincinnati has such a fantastic childrens hospital and they will be able to take care of Nicolas and answer some much needed questions. Always remember you have our shoulders to lean on, esp in the upcoming month with the many visits.

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  • Oh goodness - that is a lot of information to take in and try to digest.  I'm certain that it feels very overwhelming, right now.  I hope that you receive the information and support that you need from the specialists at Children's.  Your little miracle is perfect just the way he is; and, more importantly, he has the Mommy he needs to help him through any/all of life's hurdles. 

    We're always here to offer an *ear*, encouragement, and support. 

  • (((HUGS)))

    I'm so sorry you had a rough (to say the least) appointment. 

    I hope you get some better news at some of your upcoming appointments and will keep you all in my prayers!  You have a beautiful, precious boy! 

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  • Oh sweetie I am so sorry you are going through all of this. Big HUGS!! I hope you are able to get the answers and help you need. Hang in there.
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  • ::Hugs::

    Vent away, you've got a lot on your plate right now. I'm sorry you have to deal with all of this.

  • Also, I live in Alexandria, so anytime you want to get out and get some coffee (or a margarita!) let me know!
  • Sending a big hug your way!  Feel free to vent away.  Thank goodness we have some place wonderful like Children's here in our city to provide such wonderful care to our DCs without having to travel all over the country.  I hope you get some answers soon and knowledge to move forward with whatever's best for Nicholas!
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  • Oh my goodness what a lot to take in!  Lots of hugs coming your way, I hope you are able to get some more answers at your upcoming appointments.
  • Hugs!!  What a stressfull visit. Thankfully Cincinnati Childrens is awesome and hopefully they will be able to properly diagnose him and give him the best treatments available so he will live a full and healthy life.

    More hugs!

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  • HUGS and T&P's - You are an awesome mom so no matter what happens, I know that you will do what is best for him to ensure that he will grow up to be happy and healthy!
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  • I'm sorry you got such overwhelming news today.  It just adds insult to injury that Nicholas got shots today, it's just so darn hard to get news about your child that isn't happy and rosy.

    We are definitely always here for you, I hope that's some comfort to you.  Sending you lots and lots of hugs.

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  • I am so so sorry. T&Ps going out to you.
  • Hugs...I can't imagine having an appointment like that.  It will be so good to get answers you need to make sense of everything.  Stay strong, T&P!
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  • I'm sorry Lauren, I hope you can find the answers you need.  Like PP's have said we're all here for you.
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  • (((HUGS))) We're always here to listen.  I've heard nothing but fantastic things about CCHMC (and witnessed some firsthand when I rotated through there).  If Nicholas does need some help, he will be in excellent hands.  More (((HUGS))) to you mama!
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  • It sounds like it was such an overwhelming day! I hope you can get answers soon and start to work on a plan to help Nicholas. Lots of love and prayers to you both!
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  • I'm sorry it's been such a tough day.  I'll keep you in my prayers.
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  • Well, I know nothing about RSS but Sprads post "looks" like it is managable.  I do say "looks" because I am sure it is not that simple.  I do hope that you are able to get answers quickly and you DS is on his way to being a healthy fat boy:)  Try not to look too much on the internet you know that will just cause you to worry more!  I swear search engines only put the worse case stories on the top. 

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  • ((hugs)) coming your way.  I can only imagine how stressed and upset you must be feeling.  I agree with the other posters that Children's Hospital is an amazing place and they will be able to give you so much information and will take good care of Nicholas.  Feel free to vent here any time.  We are all here for you.  I will be thinking and praying for you.
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  • Sending lots of hugs your way!!
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  • What an overwhelming day. Prayers are with you.
  • Aww, I'm so sorry the appt. was so stressful. Sad Cincy Children's is a wonderful hospital, and I hope that the upcoming tests give you some piece of mind and a plan on how to move forward. DD had over 10 GI tests conducted at Dayton Children's when she was 9 mos. old, and we couldn't have been happier with the care we received while there. I'm thinking and praying for you.
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  • What an overwhelming visit Lauren, I'm so sorry! I hope that the specialists at Children's will be able to answer some questions, and provide you guys with a game plan on what to do next to help Nicholas.

    I know that I'm sending some positive thoughts your way, and it sounds like you've got a lot of people doing the same. We're all definitely here for you when you need some support!

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  • Oh my goodness, that is so overwhelming!  I will be praying for you and little Nicholas. 
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  • I cannot imagine every having to sit through something like that.  The one time they had to do bloodwork just to "eliminate possibilities of anything other than ear infection" when we knew that was it, I was a wreck.  ((HUGS))  I am so sorry you having to deal with this, but maybe catching this early means that can help him more than if they caught it later.  Good luck and definitely let us know what you find out.
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  • I'm so sorry, Lauren.  I hope that they're able to create a plan for Nicholas now that they know what is causing his slower growth.  Big hugs to you, Nicky and your DH!
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  • I am so sorry to hear this... we've never been through anything like what you're going through but I can certainly relate to caring for a child with a chronic illness/condition :(  I really hope that all of the testing will give you the answers you need to move forward and keep your little man happy and healthy and growing!

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  • I'm so sorry, Lauren!  I hope you get all the answers you are looking for and need from Children's.  Take comfort in knowing they are one of the best!  I think once you know what he is causing his slow growth, you will feel more in control of the situation.  And Moesten hit the nail on the head - you will experience so many emotions (much like what is experienced in a greiving process) and that is totally normal!  I will be thinking about you guys.  Please keep us posted and vent whenever you need to! 
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you get some definite answers soon. I'll be thinking of you.
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  • Oof. That big load of news must have been so overwhelming. I am sorry. Best of luck over the next few weeks. 
  • Big hugs!  I just read this post and your post about your roof.  You are having a truly bad day.  

    I'll be thinking of you and saying a prayer for your little boy.  We're here to listen so please keep us posted on what the Dr.'s say.   

  • Thoughts and prayers coming your way.  I hope getting some answers will give you a sense of peace about it all!
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