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Why am I so annoyed! ( long)

kbunskbuns
in January 2011 Moms
DH is staying home today because his back hurts so bad. I'm so annoyed that he took off work. Its just mondays are my only day off to myself and I enjoy them and he is ruining "me time".(I only have 6 months left of me time) Monday is cleaning day. I have already cleaned all the floors on my hands and knees, did the laundry, dishes and moves huge bags down to the basement ( I asked DH to do this last monday when he got home and obviously he hasn't) It just makes me pissy that I'm sitting here cleaning everything from top to bottom and he is sitting on his @ss watching T.V. I'm taking a break because I'm tired but still have more to do today. I know I shouldn't be annoyed but I am . He told me I'm being a *** and that he is staying home because his back hurts so bad. My reply was well my back hurts, my tits hurt, my legs hurt along with everything else but I can't get up and take a muscle relaxer like you. I deal with the pain like a real man unlike you. ( i know harsh) Uhh sorry had to vent
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  • sandylousandylou member
    That would annoy me too. I hate it when I'm cleaning, cooking and doing things and DH sits on his a**.
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  • wmramselwmramsel
    I get super irritated when DH invades my 'me' time, too!  I think that we are dealing with so much, that they look like wusses when they complain about something.  Does your DH have a history of back problems?  Just try to remind yourself that his back probably hurts A LOT and that effects everything he does.  Unless he has a history of milking it and taking off work or getting out of house work because he uses it as an excuse, then feel free to a *** about it!
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  • kbunskbuns

    imagewmramsel:
    I get super irritated when DH invades my 'me' time, too!  I think that we are dealing with so much, that they look like wusses when they complain about something.  Does your DH have a history of back problems?  Just try to remind yourself that his back probably hurts A LOT and that effects everything he does.  Unless he has a history of milking it and taking off work or getting out of house work because he uses it as an excuse, then feel free to a *** about it!

    Ha he doesn't have a history of back problems but he did build a deck and put in a fence for me in the last two weeks but I personally think he is milking it. He walks around like oh i hurt and cries and moans.He's a man and I swear when they hurt or are sick they make a HUGE deal out of it. It just annoys me because my back has literally hurt for probably 3 weeks and hes always like you are such a baby you're not even that pregnant ( which annoys the piss out of me). I just enjoy me time i think lol. Be nice be nice be nice! 

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    Can you imagine if men had to carry the baby for 9 months?  LOL.
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  • wmramselwmramsel
    imagekbuns:

    imagewmramsel:
    I get super irritated when DH invades my 'me' time, too!  I think that we are dealing with so much, that they look like wusses when they complain about something.  Does your DH have a history of back problems?  Just try to remind yourself that his back probably hurts A LOT and that effects everything he does.  Unless he has a history of milking it and taking off work or getting out of house work because he uses it as an excuse, then feel free to a *** about it!

    Ha he doesn't have a history of back problems but he did build a deck and put in a fence for me in the last two weeks but I personally think he is milking it. He walks around like oh i hurt and cries and moans.He's a man and I swear when they hurt or are sick they make a HUGE deal out of it. It just annoys me because my back has literally hurt for probably 3 weeks and hes always like you are such a baby you're not even that pregnant ( which annoys the piss out of me). I just enjoy me time i think lol. Be nice be nice be nice! 

    I think maybe you should throw in a couple b!tchy comments for me too! LOL I know how the whiny-ness comes out when they hurt- my DH does the same thing.  But to say you aren't even that pregnant???  You should remind him that YOUR back is actually changing shape! 

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  • SND2010SND2010

    Wow you?re much nicer than I am. If my DH said "you?re not even THAT pregnant" he would be in danger of getting kicked in the nads.

    I totally know how you feel about being annoyed at losing "me time." I've had moments since I got pregnant where my husband bugs me just because he's breathing.

     

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