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Update for me

I think this will be a final update for me for a while.  I see a lot of new faces - hoping you are all blessed soon. 

 I separated (kinda) from my husband.  We have a lot of issues to work out.  We are going to counseling after years of asking him to do it.  It didn't hit him until I told him I was leaving for sure.  He blames himself for it and has been good (kinda) about letting me stay in our home while we work out bills, etc..  I am not working and unemployment just stopped coming - a little worried about that.  

I've been unhappy for a while, this is a shock to him and to me as I never thought I'd ever do it.  I'm positive that everything will work out one way or another.  

 I will be praying for all of you fabulous ladies here.  

Re: Update for me

  • ALF222ALF222 member
    I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Take care of yourself and good luck!
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  • Oh I am so sorry but am proud of you for taking the steps necessary to be happy. Although the road will be rocky (no matter which way it goes)..you are a strong woman and can do it.

    Hang in there. {{HUGS}}

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  • So sorry but it sounds like you have really thought it through and made some good decisions. I hope all goes well with the counseling. Gives us an update now and again. Will be thinking about you and your family. 
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  • OscarQOscarQ member
    I'm so sorry that you are going through this - I hope it all works out for the best.
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    Oh I am so sorry but am proud of you for taking the steps necessary to be happy. Although the road will be rocky (no matter which way it goes)..you are a strong woman and can do it.

    Hang in there. {{HUGS}}

    I could not have said it better. Take care of yourself and DD, I hope this helps all of you find the happiness your longing for.

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  • I am sorry that you are going through all this.  I hope that you get to be as happy as you deserve to be.
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  • I am very sorry to hear that you have been going through so much!  However, I agree with all the ladies that you are very strong to take a step in the direction of happiness.  I wish you all the best!
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  • I'm so sorry.  Good luck.  Take good care of yourself!  {{{Hugs}}}
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  • Jillies- So sorry that you are going through this. You are a strong woman to realize it's time for change. It can be scarry at times but you only control you and must be in charge of your own happiness. Your little girl will learn how strong you are and be proud of her Mommy for doing whatever it takes to be happy. Our lives are too short not to. GL and pop in to update every so often.

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  • Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear about this. Take care of yourself. We are here if you need to talk.
  • I am so sorry.  I hope either you can work it out, or you find some common ground in the future.  I never like seeing anyone split, but if that is necessary, I hope you can find amicable ground.  I hope you find some answers.  We are here to help if you need to vent here.  Godspeed, and I hope this works the way you want it.
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  • Im so sorry you are going through this! I hope everyhting works out for you :)
  • jcathjcath member
    I'm so sorry.  I hope these changes bring much happiness into your life.
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  • Oh I'm so sorry (and sorry for missing this post when you wrote it).  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Do what you need to do, and above all, be good to yourself.  Hang in there.  Left HugRight Hug

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