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fdmaw · July 2010

I just had my second baby pass away. He was stillborn at 38 weeks, with a true knot. I dont know how to deal with the loss of yet another child. I feel like my world has come crashing down on me. How do I get through this?

Shayna0182 · July 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I know no words can take away the hurt and pain you're feeling right now. I too have lost 2 babies, both girls, and it hurts so bad. This board is wonderful, and the support is amazing. Please feel free to vent, cry, whatever you need. We'll be here to listen!

goillini823 · July 2010

Im really sorry for your losses. This board is full amazing women and you will find a ton of support here.

anonomity · July 2010

I am so so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. For me, this board has helped immensely. It is the only place I've found where people actually understand what I'm going through. I've also found comfort in my church and through just allowing myself to grieve. I hope you are able to find something to help you through this and give you some peace. ((hugs))

itsmegin · July 2010

I'm so so sorry. I don't know what to tell you. I hope you are religious because that is the only way I know to get through this. It's horrible. I hope we can help you here with support and understanding. I am so very sorry for both of your losses, it's incredibly tragic.

CashewsMommy · July 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter was born still at 35 weeks, cause unknown. I totally know the feeling of being so ready for your child to come, and then having nothing at all.

Time will be the only thing to get through it. I can't say i'm totally better, but it has gotten easier in the past 2 and a half months.

Just take the time for you, and don't try to do too much. Do you have friends and family to surround yourself with? That has helped me so much.

jkelly047 · July 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had an answer for you and all the rest of us, with why we go through these things in our life. I lost twin boys due to IC a month ago. The mornings are the worst for me. I wake up every morning with my mind running through everything i have been through in the last two months and where my life is going to go in the future. I sometimes cry, but have noticed that has gotten better with time. I find walking every morning helps me mentally, to clear my mind and get some self confidence back in myself. (Feel as though my self confidence has taken a dive since I lost my boys.) I highly recommend the walking....

stillbaking · July 2010

I am so very sorry for your loss.

mollywilliams07 · July 2010

I am SO sorry to hear about your loss. I am also new her and I just loss my first baby 2 weeks ago. I can't imagine what you are going through because I know it is different for everyone. Please message me if you would like to talk or anything since I am new at this too. Yesterday was my first day on this board and the ladies on here have been so sweet and supportive! I hope time and suport from family and friends helps you heal. My prayers are with you! Again, I am so so soooo sorry.

a&b=him&me · July 2010

oh gosh, I am so so sorry for your loss

. The girls here are an excellent source of support when you are ready to talk, or you want to vent or just share. The roller coaster definitely SUCKS but having these ladies has made it more "bareable"

starrynyt · July 2010

I am so, so very sorry for your losses. It is so unfair that you are having to go through this again (even once for that matter). I'm sorry I don't have any answers or a way to make your pain go away, but lean on the people here. This board is great and filled with people that certainly know how it feels. My T&P are with you.

Stella's Mom · July 2010

I am so sorry for both of your losses. I hate to say it but I think love & support from your family/friends and time are the only things that will get you through this.

I lost my son at 39.5 weeks, just a little over 3 weeks ago. I am doing my very best to stay positive about the future but it is so tough. I do a lot of crying but I do a lot of laughing too. My husband & I are trying very hard to remember why we made a baby in the first place and how much we love each other and Mason. I waited my entire life for Mason and no one can take away the fact that I AM his mother and he IS my son. I'm grateful he was the one chosen for me and although I want him with me now I cherish the 9 months we spent together.

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