Vent about BIL

Jill+Dave · October 2008

My sister's husband is a JERK! He left her in May for no good reason (after 4.5 yrs of marriage & 10 yrs together) - went to Montana with some friends, but said that he may come back in a few months - whatever. 2 weeks later he started sleeping with some girl that he met out there & she knew that he was married.

Well guess what - now he's showing his awful face back in town, still says that he doesn't really want to be married to anyone but isn't doing anything about moving forward with a legal separation or divorce - Oh wait & he got that dumb girl pg. And they aren't sure if they are going to keep it. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!!! What is wrong with him?!

And of course this isn't the 1st time that she's done this. Apparently she's been pg with some random guy's baby before & gave it up for adoption. Not to let my stupid BIL off the hook but you'd think she would have learned from before to use birth control, keep her legs shut or at the very least would know better than to sleep with married men!

My sis wanted to start a family for so long & he kept putting her off - probably a good thing considering the current situation but it's really hurting her that her husband got someone else pg when that was supposed to be her. And I want a baby so badly & yet this woman gets to have one, make that 2 that she doesn't even want/keep.

Sorry that's been eating me up for the last 2 days & I can't talk to anyone in my family about it as my sis doesn't want anyone else to know. Everyone is soooo angry at her husband as it is that she doesn't want them all to hate him even more - although I'm not sure that's possible.