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jjolijjoli
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Well it finally all toppled over.  Last night was DHs and Is first major fight and basically the short story is he doesn't want to grow up.  So after as much talking and crying as I could take, I took DD and packed a few thigs and went to my parents. I am planning on going home tonight and if it is really what he wants then I am staying in the house and if he doesnt want to be a grown up he can find somewhere else to stay.  I have two sides of myself, the one that wants to beg to him and then the other side that wants to say "f&8^ you" and leave. I love him and Lillian more than anything in the world, but he can't crap on me and think it is okay.  This is not MUD, and I just wanted to talk to someone.  My neighbor did save me last night while I was waiting for my parents to get there (had no gas in my car) she came over and was a very good friend to me.  Thanks for listening.
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  • majors31majors31

    i'm sorry you are going through this.

    i hope that you guys can work it out. 

    hang in there.  

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  • jjolijjoli
    Thanks.  I don't want it to be over I would rather work through it because there is no point to throw everything away after a fight, but I also can't be continued to be crapped on. That is the best way I can put it. 
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  • majors31majors31

    no one deserves to be less than an equal in any relationship.

    it is good that you want to work it out.  hopefully he does too and you guys can work to get to a much better place - for both of you (and that adorable LO). 

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  • jjolijjoli
    Thanks.  I dont have many friends, Ihave family, but sometimes it is nice to talk.
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  • Shayna0182Shayna0182 member
    Maybe taking a couple of days to breath might be a good thing.  Have you considered trying counseling?
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  • jjolijjoli
     I would love to d counseling to try and see if it helped.  But I don't have any money to do it. DH doesnt have a job cause he lost it and we have no money.  I dont evenhave insurance.
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  • starkbaby22starkbaby22 member

    My DH and I have gone through some pretty rough times.  If you ever need to talk you can PM me or I'll give ya my email address.  I don't think I know anyone who has this "fairytale" life everyone wants.  The best advice I've ever gotten was, "It's okay not to feel 'in love' all the time, as long as you know you still love one another."

    Good luck, dearie. :) *chin up*

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  • maria22hzmaria22hz
    DH and I went to something called Retrouvaille.  It's free and it's through the church.  We are not church going people, we're not religious so it's not a requirement by any means.  Please check it out, google it.  It'll help you guys out immensely.
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  • electricdoctor83electricdoctor83 member
    I'm sorry you are dealing with this :(  Big hugs.
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  • Mommy2B_HartMommy2B_Hart
    I'm so sorry you're going through this.  I hope when you talk to DH you get the answers you want. I agree with PP that no one has the fairy tale, no one. Sad
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  • jjolijjoli
    Thanks everyone.  I am going home tonight and he said he will be there nd he wantsto talk, but I have no idea if he is waiting for me or packing his things. 
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