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Ugh =(

MrsPLW71MrsPLW71
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I am CD10 and have all the right signs.  I had a diagnostic Mammography on Friday morning for pain under my arm and on the side of my breast.  No lumps, but my older sister is a breast cancer survivor. 

When I got home from work, the scheduling department called and left a message for me to call them back.  Ugh, I'm scared they want me to come back for more tests which means DH and I should hold off for now just in case I need more tests.

This our our 15th cycle trying.  We missed 2 cycles this spring while he was recovering from hernia surgery.  I am starting to feel like being parents just isn't in the cards for us Crying 

But, I would hate to have something wrong medically and not be able to take care of it if I actually conceived.  I know abstaining is the right thing to do for now until this is cleared up.

Pity party over. Thanks for listening.

Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment

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  • ALF222ALF222 member
    I'm so sorry! Crossing my fingers that it ends up being nothing! T&Ps to you.
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  • jcathjcath member
    I'm so sorry. I feel like any month missed at this point is tragic.  I hope they just called to get your billing info :)
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  • MrsPLW71MrsPLW71

    Thanks girls!  I hope it turns out to be nothing ~ it's just weird that it's the scheduling department calling and not billing or the front desk.

    *sigh* missing tonight is hard.  DH is concerned and disappointed.

    Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment

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  • shyntrueshyntrue
    Good Luck!
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  • cupcakeandmoosecupcakeandmoose
    I'm also very sorry for this unexpected obstacle. Life is full of them and we are all equally vulnerable to them. Try to remain positive, ok? Tomorrow is a new day. :) You will get your BFP.
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  • *Chicken**Chicken*

    My mom was also a breast cancer survivor.

    Was this your first mammogram?  I had my first one recently and the tech told me to not be surprised or worried if they call for another screen because they have no reference point to compare since it was my first time.

    I hope that's the case for you. 

     

    Over the last 2 years I've had the same thoughts as you because it was one thing after another that prevented us from getting pregnant. It was like the universe was against me.  But it's not and one day you will be a parent.

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  • MrsPLW71MrsPLW71

    No, it's not my first.  It was a diagnostic mamogram due to pain in my left breast/under arm. 

    I have an appt for a left breast ultrasound Monday at 1 pm.  So, we are out this cycle until we can make sure I am in the clear. 

    Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment

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