TTC After a Loss

Why aren't there more

of us inside in the A/C bumping!!! Entertain me!!!!! LoL. Me and furbaby #2 are chillin in the bedroom w/AC.  DH downstairs w/fb#1. 
Right now, this moment, how do you feel about TTC? I'm stil 'meh' like I was last cycle, but I want to be excited! Maybe I will after AF is gone.  Gotta go to Vitamin World tomrw for Vitex / B6 / BComplex.

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  • I'm in the AC, it's so gross out.  Anyways, I feel okay about TTC again right now because I didn't O yet and am not waiting to test.  Talk to me again in a few days/weeks, that all might change.  I'll probably be a nervous wreck!
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  • kmountkmount member
    no AC in my house...  yuck.  I'm in the same place of my cycle as you-- this may sound ridiculous, but months ago I had a free psychic reading and was told I'd have an April boy, so I guess I'm actually a bit excited about this month.  Is that crazy?  I almost feel like I'm setting myself up for disappointment...  there's only one answer I want to see at the end of July, and there's only a 20% chance I'll actually see it.  So I'm also trying to remain realistic.
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  • because my DH is cooking on the grill tonight and doesn't like to cook alone...so I am bumping from the backyard. 
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  • imagekmount:
    no AC in my house...  yuck.  I'm in the same place of my cycle as you-- this may sound ridiculous, but months ago I had a free psychic reading and was told I'd have an April boy, so I guess I'm actually a bit excited about this month.  Is that crazy?  I almost feel like I'm setting myself up for disappointment...  there's only one answer I want to see at the end of July, and there's only a 20% chance I'll actually see it.  So I'm also trying to remain realistic.

    I remember you posting this, and no, its not crazy at allCool.  I need something to give me hope,  I would keep this thought in my back pocket too.  I want to be hopeful and excited but I'm just...here. 

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Ew, who OSB'd me, show yourself!
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  • imageanniegirl1:
    I'm in the AC, it's so gross out.  Anyways, I feel okay about TTC again right now because I didn't O yet and am not waiting to test.  Talk to me again in a few days/weeks, that all might change.  I'll probably be a nervous wreck!

    I'm waiting for this part of the cycle, where you can actually 'do' something to affect you getting pg, BD! Well, we'll all behere during your 2 wk wait so don't worry, you'll have support!

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am not TTC but not TTA this month.  We just kind of threw the trying thing out the window.  Watch me get pregnant.  Ha. 
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  • imageAGFaso:
    Ew, who OSB'd me, show yourself!

    I just five starred you to help make up for it.  :)

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  • I'm in the AC (would DIE without it in TX) bumping for a little while longer, waiting for DH's stomach to get hungry so we can go out to eat!

    Right this second, I'm crazy optimistic for this cycle.  I go up and down on a moment by moment basis but right now everything looks exactly like it did when I conceived my boys...  You will probably get a different answer tomorrow!

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    Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
    DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
    Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
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  • imageMrs.Albie:

    imageAGFaso:
    Ew, who OSB'd me, show yourself!

    I just five starred you to help make up for it.  :)

    Thanks Mrs Albie!!! And DH and I were EXACLTY that last month, and its what put me in this 'meh' mood I think.  Cuz I actually got my first + OPK and didn't do anything with it :(

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  • imageb2b999:
    because my DH is cooking on the grill tonight and doesn't like to cook alone...so I am bumping from the backyard. 

    Yuck, too hot and too bright to bump outside!!!! Go in the basement girl! MAke him sweat it alone! LoL j/k

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am here! Just vegging on the couch. I have a lot of kitchen stuff to do tonight, which I am dreading
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  • imageleneae10:

    I'm in the AC (would DIE without it in TX) bumping for a little while longer, waiting for DH's stomach to get hungry so we can go out to eat!

    Right this second, I'm crazy optimistic for this cycle.  I go up and down on a moment by moment basis but right now everything looks exactly like it did when I conceived my boys...  You will probably get a different answer tomorrow!

    No No!  keep this mood!!!!!  I want this sosoooosoososo bad for you and DH this cycle!!

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageAGFaso:
    imageleneae10:

    I'm in the AC (would DIE without it in TX) bumping for a little while longer, waiting for DH's stomach to get hungry so we can go out to eat!

    Right this second, I'm crazy optimistic for this cycle.  I go up and down on a moment by moment basis but right now everything looks exactly like it did when I conceived my boys...  You will probably get a different answer tomorrow!

    No No!  keep this mood!!!!!  I want this sosoooosoososo bad for you and DH this cycle!!

    LOL; thanks!!!  I want it for ALL OF US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  If only I had a magic wand...

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    Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
    DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
    Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
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  • I'm lurking around...haven't gone outside all weekend.  Embarrassed
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  • imageAGFaso:
    imageMrs.Albie:

    imageAGFaso:
    Ew, who OSB'd me, show yourself!

    I just five starred you to help make up for it.  :)

    Thanks Mrs Albie!!! And DH and I were EXACLTY that last month, and its what put me in this 'meh' mood I think.  Cuz I actually got my first + OPK and didn't do anything with it :(

    B/C I am snarky, I put this in my siggy for the OSB...You are welcome to "steal" the idea if you want...

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    It was my "special" tribute to the OSB.  

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  • I am finally inside in the a/c bumping - first time all weekend!  Today I helped my mom with cleaning out old things from my grandfather's attic - sad, but with moments of laughter.

    We are testing Tues or Wed this week (can't decide whether to wait or not.  I'm really optimistic, but I think it's because I can't bear the thought that if we aren't pg, I become a lab rat for my dr to try to figure out if there's an issue, so since I'd prefer obviously to avoid that, I'm a shiny example of optimism this cycle!!!

    GL to you this cycle!!!

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  • I'm here! I just finished supper.  And now chillin on the Bump for this evening.

    As far as TTC, I'm super excited.  But I wish we could just be "meh" about it, because I feel a good bit of pressure as a result of being so excited.  

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  • imageAGFaso:

    imageanniegirl1:
    I'm in the AC, it's so gross out.  Anyways, I feel okay about TTC again right now because I didn't O yet and am not waiting to test.  Talk to me again in a few days/weeks, that all might change.  I'll probably be a nervous wreck!

    I'm waiting for this part of the cycle, where you can actually 'do' something to affect you getting pg, BD! Well, we'll all behere during your 2 wk wait so don't worry, you'll have support!

    thanks!

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  • imagethecatsfancy:
    I'm lurking around...haven't gone outside all weekend.  Embarrassed

    I was only outside on Friday, after that I died inside alll weekend so don't feel bad

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imagespincat9:

    I am finally inside in the a/c bumping - first time all weekend!  Today I helped my mom with cleaning out old things from my grandfather's attic - sad, but with moments of laughter.

    We are testing Tues or Wed this week (can't decide whether to wait or not.  I'm really optimistic, but I think it's because I can't bear the thought that if we aren't pg, I become a lab rat for my dr to try to figure out if there's an issue, so since I'd prefer obviously to avoid that, I'm a shiny example of optimism this cycle!!!

    GL to you this cycle!!!

    I understand your apprehension.  Praying for you!!!!

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageAGFaso:

    imagethecatsfancy:
    I'm lurking around...haven't gone outside all weekend.  Embarrassed

    I was only outside on Friday, after that I died inside alll weekend so don't feel bad

    Thanks. Big Smile  With all the bleeding/cramping that's been going on this weekend, I've felt pretty anti-social.

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  • Lkat17Lkat17 member

    Oh, thank goodness for a/c. It's gross out today!

    I'm waiting on AF before we can ttc. I think it should arrive in the next few days and I'm excited and nervous to try again. 

    Tell me more about Vitex! 

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  • imageLkat17:

    Oh, thank goodness for a/c. It's gross out today!

    I'm waiting on AF before we can ttc. I think it should arrive in the next few days and I'm excited and nervous to try again. 

    Tell me more about Vitex! 

    Vitex is a supplement (chastreeberry or something like that) that is supposed to "regulate" the female cycle.  I'm hoping it will push my O day up a few days and lengthen my LP.  Some ladies on here have had success w/it the first cycle they use it.  I'm excited.

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Lkat17Lkat17 member
    imageAGFaso:
    imageLkat17:

    Oh, thank goodness for a/c. It's gross out today!

    I'm waiting on AF before we can ttc. I think it should arrive in the next few days and I'm excited and nervous to try again. 

    Tell me more about Vitex! 

    Vitex is a supplement (chastreeberry or something like that) that is supposed to "regulate" the female cycle.  I'm hoping it will push my O day up a few days and lengthen my LP.  Some ladies on here have had success w/it the first cycle they use it.  I'm excited.

    Cool! I hope it helps!

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  • We contemplated taking the dog for a walk-it's not SUPER hot out right now like it was earlier today. In fact, we turned off the air and opened up the windows-it's actually pretty nice right now.

    Right now though I'm bumping and working on my resume. What I should be doing is working on these stupid classes I'm taking online....I kinda sorta stopped doing them for a couple months because I got really busy..........whatever, I'm just lazy. Anyway-I REALLY need to get back on the ball with that. 

    How am I feeling about the ttc thing currently? I'm effing jaded about everything right now. I'm sick of everyone-and I'm so not even kidding-everyone I know getting bfp's left and right without even trying. F*CK them. I'm sick of my job, I'm sick of my house....blah. I just feel like sh*t. I feel completely lazy and like I can't accomplish anything. Totally unmotivated. And seriously-that's not me at all...so I don't know what the hell has been going on. I feel suck-ish. Yep. 

  • I?m here, just hanging out till hubs gets home and then I?m gonna start dinner.

    About TTC, I feel very excited and hopeful. I don?t think I will ever give up on wanting my own baby, so I will keep praying, hoping, waiting, trying, etc.

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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