Community› The Bump Message Boards› Babies: 6 - 9 Months
Babies: 6 - 9 Months
New Discussion

Am I over reacting?

CswaileCswaile
in Babies: 6 - 9 Months

So me and FI have been kind of going threw a rough patch. We haven't had sex in close to a month. We are definitely having some communication issues.

 So last night I could not sleep so I went and had a bath and eventually went back to bed, and cuddled up to FI. He obviously thought that meant I wanted to get "busy". So we started fooling around and started doing the deed.

In the middle of it all he asks me if I have ever thought about cheating on him. I never have and I was very hurt that he would think that I would.  I told him I was very hurt by the comment. And I can't shake this feeling that he believes I am unfaithful. Am I over reacting?

Report Reply to Post

Re: Am I over reacting?

  • jessicaclarejessicaclare member
    In the middle of having sex he asked you that? Yeah, I'd be questioning his motives too.
    image
    Annelise 3.22.2007 Norah 10.24.2009 Amelia 8.7.2011
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • reannegummerreannegummer
    Did you ask him what prompted that comment?  That would bother me too but moreso, I'd be worried why he was thinking it and I'd be trying to get some answers.
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • CswaileCswaile

    imagereannegummer:
    Did you ask him what prompted that comment?  That would bother me too but moreso, I'd be worried why he was thinking it and I'd be trying to get some answers.

     

    I asked how he could ever think that. And his answer was " We just haven't been talking much so I just thought you might be considering cheating"

    Report Reply
  • Liss_37Liss_37 member

    it's very disturbing that he asked you that during sex.

    it's one thing if he's worried about you having an affair, but to ask you while you're at your most intimate with each other is just weird

    Me: 37
    DH: 36
    Married: 08-25-07
    DS: 11-20-09

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers


    Daisypath - Personal pictureDaisypath Anniversary tickers

    Name change alert: Formerly Lisswastaken

    Report Reply
  • CswaileCswaile
    imagelisswastaken:

    it's very disturbing that he asked you that during sex.

    it's one thing if he's worried about you having an affair, but to ask you while you're at your most intimate with each other is just weird

     

    I no eh!  I was so hurt and he has done nothing but apologize,  but I just don't feel like I can forgive him right now. That's one hell of a thing to be accused of.

    Report Reply
  • AbinormalAbinormal member
    Have you considered that he may be cheating or thinking about cheating?
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • CswaileCswaile

    imageAbinormal:
    Have you considered that he may be cheating or thinking about cheating?

     

    I asked him that last night and he says no. And I highly highly doubt he is. He may think of it, I will never know. I am so flustered now. 

    Report Reply
  • OhioBobcatOhioBobcat member

    First of all, that's a very poor time to bring up such a serious topic. And second...I have a 6.5 month old as well and although cheating has never crossed my mind with DH, I have no idea where I could find the time to do it if it even did!

    Absurd!

    Image and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPic My 365 Blog Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • sgrlsgrl member

    Whaa?

     

    So it was like, in-out-in-out-in-"so are you thinking of cheating on me?"-out-in-out . . . . 

    Talk about poor timing . . . .

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"