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No heartbeat

I'm 9 weeks along, and the tech didn't see or hear a heartbeat, the dr didn't double check. Their telling me it's a miscarriage but I'm not having any symptoms. What do I do??

Re: No heartbeat

  • I would get a second opinion or demand that they recheck and not leave until they do! There is no reason for them not to. 
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  • Unfortunately, it probably is. I know this might sound a little harsh, but my sister had the same thing once- It wasn't until a few dyas later that she had symptoms and started bleeding. I would definitely get a second opinion first (and soon), because if you don't bleed and naturally expel, you'll have to have a D&C. If you did miscarry, rely on your support group and try to reach out to others to learn how to cope properly.
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  • You might want to try asking on Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss section
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.

    At nine weeks, the heartbeat should be easily detected by u/s. Esp. if they detected a HB at an earlier scan. It is not uncommon to not have symptoms right away - many ladies experience a "missed miscarriage" - they had no indication that their baby had stopped growing weeks before.

    You can always ask for another check before moving forward with a d&c or other proceedure, but I think you need to prepare yourself and begin the healing/grieving process.

    As a PP said, the MC/PL board is a wonderful place for support.

  • Thanks for the info, going to get a second opinion just in case. I wanna make sure before I make a decision like that ya know. Don't wanna wonder the rest of my life. 
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