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VERY Pregnant Bridesmaid?

May524May524
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DH and I are TTC.  If I get pregnant this cycle, I would be due a week (give or take) before I'm supposed to stand in my friends wedding as a bridesmaid.  I'm totally stressing over this because if I am indeed pregnant, I would probably back out.  Has anyone ever dealt with this?

DH says to go ahead and keep TTC because there is no guarantee I will get pregnant this cycle anyway.   After this cycle, I will take a month or 2 break as I am in another wedding in May and I'm the MOH and it's out of town (about 4 hours away). 

What would you do?  I posted about this before months ago when we were thinking of TTC but now that it's here I'm really hesitant on what to do.

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    brittneycc1982brittneycc1982
    I would TTC.  Like you said, there are no guarantees.  Plus, I am sure the bride will understand!
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    Sept17.05BrideSept17.05Bride

    imagebrittneycc1982:
    I would TTC.  Like you said, there are no guarantees.  Plus, I am sure the bride will understand!

    Ditto.

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    dnagaldnagal

    TTC.

    Don't plan your life around someone else's wedding. 

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    JulieandBenJulieandBen member
    My first took 1m. My second took 11m and I almost went on fertility meds. I would not stop ttc. You never know how long it will take. A doctor will also make you wait until you have continuously tried for one year before moving on to stronger measures or testing.
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    brightningbrightning member
    imagednagal:

    TTC.

    Don't plan your life around someone else's wedding. 

    Absolutely

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    j_hopej_hope
    I committed to my sister's wedding before I had any idea I was pregnant (we weren't trying @ the time).  I was 7 months pg when I stood up in her wedding.  If your friend is a good friend, she will understand if you physically can't be in her wedding.  I'm sure you would be there support her any way you could emotionally...and like everyone else already mentioned, you cannot plan your life around everyone else.  Good luck w/ your decision!
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    kkramer99kkramer99
    A good friend of mine was 8 mos pregnant and she flew across the country to be in my wedding, but I totally would have been fine if she cancelled at the last minute.
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