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update on baby...

mrskimm09mrskimm09 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Talked to the Dr a bit ago. He said all the tests came back negative. So Im guessing this was just a fluke accident. I hope that the next one will be healthy and survive. I just wish there were some answers.

Oh and it was girl. <3

** Highschool Sweethearts ** 
Married: February 14, 2009

MC: June 6 2010 @ 18 weeks
DS: December 19, 2011
MC: October 2, 2015 @ 14 weeks


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Re: update on baby...

  • LovingIanLovingIan

    I'm sure that news was bittersweet. Good because there were no repeatable genetic issues...but bitter because you still can't put a finger on "why did this happen?"

    I hope you find some comfort in this.

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  • mrskimm09mrskimm09 member
    Im taking it as bittersweet. Exactly like you said, one one hand: awesome no disease or genetic problems one the other: then why? I think ill call it even and just hope for the next one to be healthy AND survive.
    ** Highschool Sweethearts ** 
    Married: February 14, 2009

    MC: June 6 2010 @ 18 weeks
    DS: December 19, 2011
    MC: October 2, 2015 @ 14 weeks


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  • bridezilla916bridezilla916 member
    The same thing for us ... it's so frustrating not knowing why. I can't seem to take "fluke" as an answer.
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  • W111MRPW111MRP member

    It seems like it was sort of a catch 22 answer but better than no answer at all indeed.  I'm sorry for your loss and hope that things work out for you and DH

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  • bethskyebethskye
    Did you name her?  I've heard that helps.
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