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Vent: Coworker just told me I'm dressed inappropriately.

I hate this assshole. He is such a diickhead. He walks around the office sipping on his coffee and basically just talks all day long. I can't STAND this kid.

I am wearing black work pants, black heels, a short sleeved plum purple shirt with ruffles down the front, pearl earrings and a black headband with a plum purple flower on it. No cleavage, no tight pants.

Can someone please tell me what is so inappropriate about my outfit? He tells me that headband is not work appropriate and should be left for when I go out to the bar.

Excuse me? I don't go out to "the bars" and since when did wearing a headband become inappropriate for work?

Fuucking assshole. I'm pissed.

End of vent.

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Re: Vent: Coworker just told me I'm dressed inappropriately.

  • Seriously?!  He sucks.  Don't listen to him.  You look great and totally appropriate for work.
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  • Wow!  That was rude and uncalled for!  You have every reason to be pissed off and for what it is worth I think your outfit sounds really cute and def work appropriate.

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  • Ew.  His complaint was about the HEADBAND???  He needs to get a life.  I'm sure you look perfectly appropriate for work.
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  • imageAshNicole331:

     He tells me that headband is not work appropriate and should be left for when I go out to the bar.

    HUH?! That's seems a bit odd, what a wierdo indeed. I'd be pissed too.

  • What a jerk!!  Tell him that he should spend more time working vs being a headband critic. 
  • Nothing about that sounds inappropiate.  This guy sounds like a really @$$!
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  • Your HEADBAND is inappropriate??? WTF???

    Where does this guy get off?

    Tell him his attitude is inappropriate! 

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  • Tell him he's a doucher and have Tammy come throat punch him.

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  • I'm sorry, but that is so ridiculous, its kinda funny.  I think I'd wear a headband every day for the rest of the week just for fun. He's a douche. 

  • imagesstubben:
    What a jerk!!  Tell him that he should spend more time working vs being a headband critic. 

    This!  He sounds like the Mayor of D-bag land to me!

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    imageButterflie6381:

    I'm sorry, but that is so ridiculous, its kinda funny.  I think I'd wear a headband every day for the rest of the week just for fun. He's a douche. 

    Lol, I think you should do this! That does not sound non-work appropriate at all, in fact, it sounds cute

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  • What the hell kind of bars does he go to?
  • imageButterflie6381:

    I'm sorry, but that is so ridiculous, its kinda funny.  I think I'd wear a headband every day for the rest of the week just for fun. He's a douche. 

    This!  Eff him!

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  • imageludyjanboltz:
    What the hell kind of bars does he go to?
    Lmao! Headbands are the new slut attire? I totally missed that memo. What a weirdo! Is he your supieror? If not, I would have to tell someone.
  • imageFutureMrs.McC:
    imageludyjanboltz:
    What the hell kind of bars does he go to?
    Lmao! Headbands are the new slut attire? I totally missed that memo. What a weirdo! Is he your supieror? If not, I would have to tell someone.

    He is definitely NOT my superior. Though he probably thinks he is. He's one of those guys who think women belong in the kitchen, no joke.

    Asss hat.

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  • ashr16ashr16 member

    imagestlucia_wife:
    UGH, one of those guys!  you should go to work barefoot and with an apron on tomorrow!  oh, bring your LO and keep her on your hip to tie off the whole look!

    But don't forget your headband!  LOL

    He does sound like such a tool. 

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    imagestlucia_wife:
    UGH, one of those guys!  you should go to work barefoot and with an apron on tomorrow!  oh, bring your LO and keep her on your hip to tie off the whole look!

    But don't forget your headband!  LOL

    He does sound like such a tool. 

  • imageButterflie6381:

    I'm sorry, but that is so ridiculous, its kinda funny.  I think I'd wear a headband every day for the rest of the week just for fun. He's a douche. 

     

    This is exactly what I would do. :)

  • imageBlondeBeachBride08:

    Your HEADBAND is inappropriate??? WTF???

    Where does this guy get off?

    Tell him his attitude is inappropriate! 

    THIS.

  • If it happens again and he's being a real pest, I'd talk to your supervisor, starting the conversation by "It has been mentioned to me that my outfit today is questionable for work and I'd appreciate a second opinion"  If your outfit is as cute (and business appropriate) as we all think it is, then the supervisor will confirm this to you and may ask you who said it.  

    Interestingly enough I've had a similar comment made before to me by a difficult to deal with woman and after asking a coworker I went to one of our supervisors.  His response was basically I was fine and not to worry about it.  These type of people usually cause their own problems and aren't worth your time but at least mentioning it to a supervisor casually you're covering yourself but also altering him/her of the problem. 

  • Oh really? Is that when he wears his headbands? What a stupid f$uck. Wear one every day for a week.
  • imageMrs.PsyD:
    Oh really? Is that when he wears his headbands? What a stupid f$uck. Wear one every day for a week.

    LOL!

    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker ashley jordan est. 06.07.08 | siesta key, fl
  • Ashley, Your outfit sounds very appropriate for work.  Maybe you should leave a sweatband for him to wear as a headband on his desk.  He sounds jealous.
  • imageLisa7:
    imageButterflie6381:

    I'm sorry, but that is so ridiculous, its kinda funny.  I think I'd wear a headband every day for the rest of the week just for fun. He's a douche. 

    Lol, I think you should do this! That does not sound non-work appropriate at all, in fact, it sounds cute

    I vote you should do this! 

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