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Getting nervous....

gemduncangemduncan
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I just need to say this to other people who would understand....

My DD is currently being watched at my house by my MIL. I am very lucky, I know. DH and I decided that starting in September (she'll be almost 18 months old at that time), then she will transition to an in-home daycare.  DH and I interviewed the lady and we're friends with her on FB. She seems really nice and very laid back. She only watches 4 kids full time (occassionally 5).  I don't know why I'm so nervous about my DD going to an in-home daycare. Well, I do know why...because it's not a family member watching her. I'm just so worried about how this non-family member will care for my DD plus these other kids. I feel like I'm losing control on how my DD will be cared for. I don't want to come across as an over-bearing, controlling mom with this new caregiver.

Any advice or words of wisdom to help reassure me that I'm doing the best thing for my DD by having her go to a non-family member and socialize with other children?

 Thanks for reading my ramblings!

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  • jerseygirl81jerseygirl81 member
    I'm sure it will be fine, especially since you know and like the provider.

    Charlie has so much fun with the other kids at daycare. I love watching them play together when I get there to pick him up. He also learns a ton by being around the older kids. He even talks about his friends when he's at home, and it's the funniest thing ever.
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    Let's just say I am right there with you! My friend and MIL have been doing it, I had a in-home sitter at first and she was horrible.

    I interview tonight, sooooo nervous!

     

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  • Mrs.Cooley2beeMrs.Cooley2bee member

    I know how you feel.  DD does in-home daycare and the woman has 3-4 kids usually.  I didn't know how to handle giving instructions at first.  Don't worry about being overbearing - lay out your expectations and the sitter should be fine.  If there is something you never want her doing or eating etc...just let her know.  Over time my sitter has learned a little about my personality and I have learned about hers and we are able to talk about everything.

    Also, DD truely loves seeing the other kiddos - you will be amazed. 

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  • kel716kel716 member
    I completely understand your nerves...  FWIW, she's one of the few people DH and I would let watch DS... her, MIL, SIL, other SIL, and a good friend who moved away :( That's it.  I know that probably doesn't completely help as you don't know her in that same context, but I hope it helps just a little. 
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  • JLPT830JLPT830 member
    My DS stays at my parent's house with them the 3 days I work.  In the beginning it was such a relief to know that he was so well cared for by someone who took care of him practically the same way I would have.  Now that he is older, I do think he misses out on the socialization aspect of being around other kids.  I think it will be a good opportunity to grow socially!
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    Is there anytime that you could go to the new sitter's home with your daughter during the day while she is watching other kids?  You could sit and observe and get a feel for how she does things.  It would also help you get to know her better so that you will be able to communicate your needs a bit easier. 

     

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  • gemduncangemduncan

    You ladies are awesome! Thank you so much for your show of support and encouragement! 

    I talked to the sitter via email and she put my mind at ease. She assured me that all my questions are completely normal and that all new parents have asked her the same exact thing. She seems very open and honest about everything. Phew! I feel so relieved right now and I feel very confident in my choice for an in-home daycare for my DD. Big Smile

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  • MrsMoherMrsMoher member

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    I'm sure it will be fine, especially since you know and like the provider.

    Charlie has so much fun with the other kids at daycare. I love watching them play together when I get there to pick him up. He also learns a ton by being around the older kids. He even talks about his friends when he's at home, and it's the funniest thing ever.

    This.  Eli has all kinds of "friends" and talks about them constantly.  In fact last night when I picked him up 2 of his friends had to come hug him good bye.  Your DD will love it I am sure, but the first few days might be hard dropping her off.

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