Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

AF is here

Started spotting yesterday and it's definitely arrived today.  Its been 5 weeks and 1 day since my natural miscarriage started.

I'm relieved. Although, according to my calendar, I should ovulate the weekend I'm out of town with my girl friends.  (We're going to Branson, MO, don't laugh! My sister planned this the week after I miscarried; wanted me to get out of town and sit by a pool and do some outlet mall shopping.)

Doc said that we could try again after one cycle so I'm a little bummed I'll be out of town while I ovulate. I'm sure it wouldn't hurt to wait another cycle...I'm dealing with a little anxiety at the thought of being pregnant again. 

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Re: AF is here

  • I am anxiously awaiting AF so I bet you feel relieved that it's arrived.  I don't know about how you felt, but it makes me feel just "off" that I have no clue what day AF is going to show up!  Just my luck it will prob be this weekend, right in the middle of the family BBQ we are hosting. 

    I think it's great that you are going out of town with your friends!  In my opinion, there's nothing more theraputic than shopping...and outlet mall shopping, even better. :-)

    Just like the advice that you gave me in my recent post, just go with feels right...if you have anxiety about trying again right away, maybe waiting one more cycle wouldn't hurt. 

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  • I am anxiously awaiting AF so I bet you feel relieved that it's arrived.  I don't know about how you felt, but it makes me feel just "off" that I have no clue what day AF is going to show up!  Just my luck it will prob be this weekend, right in the middle of the family BBQ we are hosting. 

    I think it's great that you are going out of town with your friends!  In my opinion, there's nothing more theraputic than shopping...and outlet mall shopping, even better. :-)

    Just like the advice that you gave me in my recent post, just go with what feels right...if you have anxiety about trying again right away, maybe waiting one more cycle wouldn't hurt. 

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    Yay, Sarah! I'm so glad AF has arrived for you! That must be a great relief.

    If you're wanting to try this cycle, you could probably plan on having sex right before and after your trip just in case.

    But if you're feeling a little anxiety, I think it's totally ok to take a break and just enjoy relaxing this month, knowing that your body is back on track and ready to go when you are. (((hugs)))

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  • Hurray! Mine came today actually. It's been 6 weeks and 3 days since my natural miscarriage started. I never know if I should count from when the m/c started or ended. Anyway, we too are going to try with this cycle.

    You might not ovulate while you are away. Are you doing OPK's? Just try to relax and have a good time. :)

     

  • I haven't tried an OPK.  I have a rough idea when I ovulate based on CF.  Its usually about 13 days after my period starts, I think.  You know, I should look because its been several months, ha!
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